There’s been a time where we all have faced betrayals. Which gives unbearable pain that we did expect but not ready to accept. Sometimes we also feel the burn inside our soul. The pain we felt we also feel like the other person must suffer in order to understand what they are doing is wrong. But no! Some people will never understand if they don’t want to. Some will only listen to themselves and always self centred and we can do nothing about that because that’s how they are. They don’t want to change themselves for someone they love or maybe they never fell in love.
We may want to take revenge but that won’t matter to them. In my opinion taking revenge can only cause harm to myself. Because I have to become someone else which I am not. Like changing myself for someone else just to become like them to make them realise is not a wise decision. Moving on is the best revenge. If you keep on thinking about revenge then it’s going to be your losses. If I keep trying to take revenge it could also backfire. I don’t know if there is something called karma if it truly works or not. Still I won’t bother to think about it if the person wronged me is getting his karma or not.
I have many things to achieve in my life and I need to use my precious time on that. Once time is gone it can never come back. So, being punctual to myself is the most important thing to have a better future. If I keep mourning about the past it’s not affecting the person but it’s gonna waste my time. By taking revenge I can’t change my paste or the pain I felt. I want to think of the good things in my life and look forward and never turn my back. Taking revenge won’t solve underlying problems. Also, it’s an unhealthy way to cope up with the situation in life. When we are angry we can go to any extend to take revenge also with a mind to think of it irrationally.
Of course, it hurts a lot but I don’t need to stoop low like them in order to take revenge. Retailing against someone who has wronged me which might make me measurably happy but it can never give me full satisfaction. So, there’s no use of taking revenge. I can’t say that they can be forgiven it actually depends on someone’s personal choices. If they want to forgive someone or not it’s upto them. But I would say it’s better not to waste time for revenge. Better days are coming let’s live the life peacefully with healthy mindset. There’s a future ahead we all are alive and hoping that we will achieve our dreams in future but for that we also have to work for our dreams. Also, I believe that if I dig hole for someone then I might fall too.
It’s nothing like backing off it’s like putting myself in a worthy position. Making my self a better person and not end up hurting someone. I never felt like that I should do wrong things just because someone did it with me. I never felt like I should betray someone or treat them badly because I was treated badly even though I don’t know if they will betray me or not and yet I never wanted to change. In the end it matters that in present I must do something better for myself and not look in the past for revenge.
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