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There are many beautiful people in our lives whom we ought to celebrate everytime we get the opportunity to do so. Loving someone does not guarantee that the one whom you're in love with will love you back just the same way and love is best expressed in order to make the one you're in love get to know your stand and your feelings towards them.
There is nothing more beautiful than having someone who makes your heart skip even when you don't expect such to happen. It's a beautiful thing to have a person whom even when they make you feel angry, you soon forget it and you two get back together as if nothing serious happened.
Sometime watching the way of life of true lovers will leave you in awe because, this minute you might hear them having a serious quarrel as though everything between including their relationships will come to an end at that moment, funny enough in less than 24 hours sometimes you'll still hear them talking to each other as if nothing happened.
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Although most times the rate at which lovers settle the issue between themselves depends on the gravity of the shortcoming of the one who has done wrong and also in relationships, understanding is very important.
It is important because people who lack a good understanding of what annoys their partner or lover can go on and on repeating the same annoying thing and if it takes 30 minutes to settle the first issue as it could be taken for a mistake, next time it may take longer hours or even days. It can even lead to break up. Understanding is very important in every lovers life, because when you understand what the person you love hates, you can think of even better ways to avoid anything that will bring up issues and if you have a proper understanding of the type of things they love, you'll definitely make them feel more comfortable staying around you because with you they will have a lot of pleasant memories.
There are loved ones who love to be gifted flowers and it's important to understand the type of flowers that they love, the type of fragrance or perfume. It's also important to know the type of music that your loved one likes the most amongst other things. To be honest there are a lot of things that one needs to know about their loved ones, especially things that may be personal if they are free to relate it with you and if they do, there is every need to cherish it and take good note of it.
Not everyone likes repeating themselves at all times and if you prove to be a good listener, it will give you an edge over many others who may not really be interested in listening to what your lover had to say. Being a good listener alone can make your lover come over and over again to relate issues with you.
Sometimes people just need someone to talk to, someone to gist with, someone that doesn't necessarily have to say a word but just be paying attention to what they have to say.
Your loved ones can feel comfortable sharing you with their observations, their plans, ask for help or suggestions and even many more. For most people, their loved ones may have someone else in their life whom they really loved more than them but the way you treat and follow your loved one can make them start reciprocating the same level of affection or even more in the future. The reason for this is that most humans are reasonable while some may appear to not be but the truth is that, your loved one may be seriously in love with another person who doesn't even give a damn about them even while you're ready by the corner showing your affection.
Many at times some will come back to their senses and return the person who can show them equal affection, there are also many who will keep on seeking for the love of the one who cares less about them until they lose the one who actually loves them. They Key is patience but don't ever try to force yourself towards anyone who do not value your presence in their lives and who don't even seem to want you be around them because it can lead to issues with serious consequences.
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