It's The Parent's Duty!!!

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Omo… censorship is one thing I’ve come to dislike greatly because as far as I’m concerned, it doesn’t change anything, especially when it is being done by the owner of the platforms. Of course, they will do their best to appeal to the good side of the customers, after all, they’re the ones spending time and data on such platforms. However, I just feel that they would never do everything that they have to do to ensure that their platforms are clean and safe for everyone.

They’re businesses and their first order of business is to make money. Their second order of business is to make even more money. The third order of business is to make money while trying to look like they care about the future of our society. I can list it all, but then this would be a redundant post.

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As I already said, these social media platforms are businesses and will always be treated as such, so the stakeholders will do whatever they feel will make them more money and fetch them more paying customers. Their job is simply to provide the platforms and hope that the people who use them upload the kind of content that will be safe. Because whether you like it or not, people will always find a way to circumvent even the most complicated algorithms. That very thing they don’t want on their platforms will find its way to it. Simple.

You can’t control what goes online, however, you can control what you consume. If you see an account that posts something you don’t like, you simply unfollow them and block them for better effect. That way, you’ll never see them again. If you keep seeing related posts, you keep blocking them. Eventually, the algorithm will realize the kind of content you enjoy and keep sending it your way.

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However, when it comes to kids, it’s a bit different due to how malleable they are and easily impressionable. However, the duty is still not on the shoulders of the owners of the platforms. It’s the parent’s duty to monitor everything your child consumes. It’s your job to know the websites they visit, and how long they spend online. Leaving such roles to the owners of the platforms would be leaving your kid at the mercy of the internet!

At present, these platforms already have features that are meant to protect the users. There are accounts you can open for your kids that allow you to monitor everything they do online remotely. There are also features that monitor your usage, once you’ve crossed a certain threshold, the app tells you to go do something else, or straight up shuts down. Can I also mention the fact that there’s a feature that thoroughly filters everything the account gets?

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You see, the platforms have done their part. All that is left is for the parents to utilize these features and make sure that they work for the betterment of their kids. We all know that as long as the internet exists, there will always be bad stuff on there. However, we must reduce the amount of bad stuff that gets through to our kids. So that when they are old enough to handle them, they will already have a solid backing.

We are responsible for the content we consume. We’re also responsible for the content our kids consume. Leaving it to the owners of the platform is a bad idea, we have to be intentional and take major steps to ensure that our kids are well protected. After all, they’re our future and would carry our legacy on to the next generation.

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Thank you for reading. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below, I would love to know what you’re thinking. Till we meet in the next post.




This post is inspired by the third topic of this week which is Uncensored. Feel free to try it out.




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I totally agree with you, we can definition control the kind of contents we have access too and allow out kids to have access to. It's such a bad idea to leave it all to the platform owners.

Yeah... it can only be up to us. Nothing more.

I agree with you and truly parents have the biggest part to play in the issue of censorship. When things get pretty bad for a child due to negative exposure, it will be the parents problem and not that of the platform owner.

Yesso... the parents will be blamed, not the social media that they were exposed to.

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Thank you for this.

I remember when I was working in Chrisland schools, VGC branch
Some parents will tell you that their child is doing one thing or the other but they never scold them and they tell the teachers to help them do so
Also, we must not spank them
Am I the one who is supposed to do all of that or the parents?
Some parents ain’t ready to become one though

As in ehn... they want you to do the things they can't do. Yet they'll still dictate how you get to do it. They can't train their kids, but they want to teach you how to train the kids. Really ridiculous.😂

It's complicated to make any reply for me in this post. Maybe you said everything what I wanted to say otherwise my mind can't think too much about anything right now because I noticed that I can't make any reply related to the topic.

Hehe... even this is still a reply!😅
You're doing well, bro!

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Thank you for this.

I have a family google link app created for this purpose because nowadays, the rate of online assignments from school is becoming too much and sometimes, I just have to allow my kids research on their own but wherever I am, I see every nucks and crannies they are exploring on the net. I think being an intentional parent in this case is the best..we can't control what fly on the Internet but can control to a larger extent what our children consume

This is what I'm talking about. You make it so that you'll have an idea of everything they do on the internet. Because choosing to leave them to their own devices will ruin them.
You're doing well, ma!