Happiness is one of the feelings all mankind crave for, but not everyone is opportuned to have it and some do lose it at certain point in their life.....
What is happiness
Happiness is an emotional state characterized by feelings of joy, satisfaction, contentment, and fulfillment.
The first step to being Happy
is contentment
... If you are not contented with what you have, if you are always comparing yourself to others, happiness would always be far from you because you will always see someone better than you, there will always be some one richer than you and many more qualities you can think of.... We are in an imperfect world and we can't be perfect either... No one is perfect.....
Focusing on yourself and stop thinking about others superiority is the first step to happiness and the moment you are satisfied with what you have and not bothered about what others possess, you will be happy, happiness does not cost a thing, it is we human that makes it costly.....
Sometimes we don't need to do something big to make people happy but being there for them when they need us can put a smile on their face, your neighbor will appreciate the 20 naira given to her when she is thirsty than the 500 naira you give her when she doesn't need it.....Little things matters
We all have different ways of deriving happiness, some likes to party, some just like to be with friends/family[ like a gathering] some derive happiness by watching movies while others derive it by dancing... The ways are too many to be listed but i can list mine....
Putting smile on other's face: This is my best way of deriving happiness, there is this extraordinary feeling i felt inside of me when i see the beautiful smile on someone i help knowing i am the reason behind their smile, it makes my heart rejoice and keeps me happy for a long time!
There is no better way to be happy than helping others, life is hard and people are going through alot, the least we can do is help them.... never turn down someone who needs your help because you may be their last hope and turning them down only means breaking their heart into pieces, if you can't render full assistant, atleast do not let them return the same way they came to you
To love and be loved: This is magical, when in love, you will see everything where there is nothing, their image would always appear and make you smile for no reason, lovers are the most happiest on earth and i like that feeling so much..I don't need the whole world to be happy, just my family and those who truly love me for who i am, their presence in my life would always bring me joy....
Earning Money There is this happy feeling that comes with the in flow of money, we are now in a world where money means everything, you can't even make others happy without money, those hungry needs food and you need money to get that, infact half of the depressed people in the world, it is money that cause their depression, so having a good source of income and earning money on daily basis is my way of achieving happiness, i love playing with our currency too, i might just withdraw some big funds and start counting and playing with it inside, it gives me so much pleasure and happiness......
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