Many people are in a toxic relationship, they know it yet they find it difficult to leave because of the other benefits they enjoy in the relationship.
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When a girl is in love and she is being taken care of by her man, she starts to glow and people will notice! Happiness and laughter are natural medicine that keeps us healthy and make our skin glow.
When a man is in a relationship with a wise woman who loves him, he will grow financially because she will help him to manage his resources, pray for him, and support him but if he is with the wrong woman especially one that is materialistic, it could be the end of him, he could lose everything and eventually the woman would leave when there is nothing left to stay for.
Love is blind, people in love don't see any flaws in their toxic partners, and if people tell them, they end up giving excuses on behalf of their partner... someone might tell you ``hey, your partner does not love you, she doesn't call you, and your reply would be she is not good with calls, sh prefer texting... she doesn't text you, oh she is busy, she gets mad at you easily, oh she inherited that from her mother, she is temperamental too... so many silly excuses for them which is because you love them, in fact, you don't see anything wrong with the way they treat you until they dump your sorry ass.
There is a story of a man I can never forget, he was into crypto too, and back then in 2017, he had gone far more than us newbies and he was making a good amount of money until a Jezebel entered his life... He met this girl on the blockchain too... Mr man was in love with the girl while the girl was only in love with what he could provide for her... The relationship started and since Mr was rich, he didn't mind spending on her...
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People close to him noticed that the girl was not in love and they tried to warn him but one of the hardest people to love are those in love all advice and warning fell on deaf ears, months later they got married...
The lady's thirst for materialistic stuff doubled and Mr man kept spending, sooner he had a problem with his online job and the money stopped flowing, which means he was only left with the ones he had earned, so he needed to improvise and watch the way he spends but the lady would not hear of that, she still demands and because the man could not meet up even though he was still trying his best to get what she demands, it just was not enough for her and they started having issues... The man kept drowning and there was nobody to save him...
If you keep spending more than what you earn, at some point, the money will finish and this what was happened to the man as expected, the lady filed for divorce as she knew the man couldn't fund her extravagant lifestyle anymore, that was how a financially okay man became someone broke.
I learned a lot from their story, never try to impress anyone with money because in the end, if you can't give them again, they will leave, any relationship built on money can never stand the test of time...
No matter how much you love your partner, if two or more people tell you something, you should think twice, there is a truth in what many people are saying, this doesn't mean you should act on it but do your investigations!.
Lastly never ignore red flags, no matter the love you have for someone... A materialistic girl is a red flag, she will drain you and leave you empty.
This is my entry to inleo prompt of oct day 24!
Just call me Burl.
I am a professional gamer, motivational speaker and a crypto enthusiast
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God exists, I am a living testimony
Giving up is not an option, every hustler has a payday
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