Am honored to be here with my fellow learned hive family, it will interest you to know that it's another weekly prompt, and I am happy to share my little experience on "what do I wish to change about myself" well a lot can be say but let's focus on what do I wish to change about myself first change takes time and anything that takes time need a process.
Firstly I think everyone needs change but not everyone wants to change it's may interest you that wish can be wishes if efforts doesn't count,
"I wish to change" change may comes in a different forms but we must understand that it's a choice that requires action, I thought that my wish can come true everyday even without working for the solution Omo e go hard to achieve that kind of wishes. If I actually want to change anything about myself it should be my mindset it's possible to make a wish or have a wish but the mind determines your efforts, results, possibilities etc
Your circle of friends it's well stated that (if you Wash your hands well you can seat and eat with the elders) so the result of whom you're today is the kind of friends you keep. Imagine if you have a friend with vision, people who think outside the box, whose mind is hunger for growth, whose mindset is beyond phones,wigs, living a life to please and oppress people. Imagine having those circle of friends, you'd be triggered to strive for a better life, and when you find friends who encourage you to positivity, to read books and who help you to find purpose please keep them well it's no longer News that not everyone seem like a true friend. But If you mingle around friends that helps you to find your potential keeping such friends is a gain and it's healthy for your growth.
"Turn your excuses into opportunities " we can say that a lot of some of our friends are reluctant when it comes to training, learning, hardwork, vision and being smart. We sometimes keep people who we call friends who see nothing with being lazy and feel like that it's not yet our time and see discipline as an act of punishment not all of us see some people mistakes as a step of opportunities to do better.
"Challenge" well while making step's in things you shouldn't share with your partner no matter what? a different person you must understand that it's comes with a price. Challenge may seem difficult from the beginning of every task but it's a part of your life journey that's shaping, sharpening and preparing you for what is to come. Challenge is part of what makes the human life fulfilling a part of the human life, it's either you win or you lose .
Dedication and productivity it's said that change is constant but there are changes that may displease you and there are some changes that may please you, I know that comes with discomfort it's only but for a while because people who change the world today are people who began with a step of saying no to loosing even when they had a thousand reason to give up and saying yes to everything, telling themselves that anything is possible once you put your mind to it.
Growth is part of human life so when growth takes less attention or given little to no effort you may not actually achieve a good result at the end.which can lead to less improvement, unproductivity and waste of life's work.
Desire's and feeling's sometimes isn't what people understand, the feeling that helps you chase a vision and the desire to maintain it with a positive goal being dedicated to anything little or big because we often forget that we have long term goals and short goal's as well, but our desire to achieve this goal's requires commitment in other for you to do better and you must never stop pushing towards achieving a positive goal's because change doesn't just happen immediately but you must apply the principle of consistency to overcome this. Work on yourself and learn to manage your time, be consistent, zealous , vibrant gradually change will come.
I hope am able to help out with my point of view tip's
Change will happen but it's takes consistency , resilience and proper management to yield any change!!!!!!!!!