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So this weekly prompt popped up this question from my mind, it's not like the major problem right now in my life but it has a major role to play in my life because I am freaking alive and I am most likely going to encounter it one way or the other because it's inevitable.
The human mind is so large and encompasses the core of every living thing and its existence, together with every thought and action. It should baffle you that you aren't using up to 80% of your mind yet. Yes! You heard me right, well this is a controversial topic so I don't mind you countering this particular topic with your opinions and facts.
Have you tried approaching your thoughts from different viewpoints or just stuck with one perspective? The reason why I surfaced this aspect of my problem is to bring clarity to my perturbed mind because it irritates me so much and I can't hide it. Maybe in posting this, you can spill from your point of view, address it, and perhaps change my orientation. After all, we are all learning every day!
What is the one thing you would like to talk about for clarity?
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The one thing that I would like to talk about to gain clarity is Why Do People Play With People's Emotions?
Don't be so quick to judge this rather I will urge you to read and respond maturely and reasonably. Meanwhile, the second thought that is whispering " they don serve Cesca breakfast " should be silenced because it is not true. I know my Nigerian people lol, we have a weird way of thinking! The quoted phrase is simply translated in proper English as " Cesca's heart is broken which is as result of failed romantic relationship ".
Seriously, I can't fathom the reason why people do that to people's hearts, especially to those with pure and genuine intentions. Perhaps they may play with others' emotions for various reasons, including insecurity, a desire for power or control, or simply a lack of empathy and lack of maturity.
Some individuals may manipulate others' emotions to fulfill their own selfish and greedy needs or to gain an advantage in a relationship or a situation but the question remains why not be mature/bold enough to say or ask questions rather than toying with their emotions?
Emotions play a significant role in shaping our perceptions, motivations, and interpersonal relationships.
So in this aspect, I stumbled on a post on Instagram about a lady and a gentleman that was having secret affairs in their workplace...read the rest of it below.
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Prior to this incident, I had encountered different scenarios just like this but I kept wondering why individuals play with people's emotions. This is why people kept on saying people will make people change and still ask why they change. When I read through this ordeal, I was so bittered and couldn't help sighing repeatedly afterward.
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Why give her so much hope even to the extent that the lady's siblings had high hopes and expectations?
Why not man up and tell her this won't work from the onset and he just needed shelter for the meantime?
What happened to establishing a mutual connection and strong friendship from the beginning?
Why was he so comfortable knowing that in the end, it would amount to nothing?
Did he truly find peace after causing so much permanent pain and agony in her life and that of her family?
Even if she wasn't good enough for marriage it would have been better if he opened up to her, this is a situation of him using her for his selfish needs. He would have suddenly left if he noticed that the closure was getting intense in that way it would spare him the regrets that's if he has one single atom of remorse.
Honestly, I wasn't even expecting this to happen this way although this occurred almost fourteen years ago and still yet the pains are fresh in the heart.
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In all this ordeal that was shared above, the impact it will leave on people's hearts will be massive, and the trauma it will leave in people's lives will be temporary but will never be forgotten in a hurry. Did I almost forget to say that few people will use this as a measure for their relationship status and so forth?
How did his mind conceal the treacherous act without revealing a bit to her?
My problem is why do people take advantage of a meek and humble heart? I must say she let her guard down even to the extent she couldn't discern the shift in his attitude all the while she had been home with him.
Looking at this situation from another point of view, what if the reason the male partner doesn't want to share his part of the ordeal might be private (best known to him)? Maybe there are lots of things that transpired while he was still with her that he does not want to share. Well, so many assumptions in my head but this is terrifying and so disheartening.
This is a response to the #hivelearners word of the week episode two - #hl-exclusive & #hl-w105e2.
