Split in FIVE Please

nkemakonam89 last year

Hahaha 😂😂, note taken from my end too, these kids can be very dramatic sometimes, haha...it's been from one drama to another in my home too when it comes to sharing snacks like this 😂

My second son even said I should find a way to put my first son back to my belly so he can be birthed first and be taking charge of snacks at home, lolz..so weird thoughts of him..lol

I can't even enjoy my own snacks alone without them clustering me around..now I am thinking of devouring this sharwama I have in mind to buy this coming weekend at the sharwama joint.. like consume all there before getting home 😂😂😂🤣🤣

crosheille last year

Lol! Wow your second son had a plan and everything 🤭😆.

Oh yes! There are plenty of times I’ve had to eat my snacks when everyone else was out of the house. Most of the time I eat my personal snacks once the kids are in bed 🤣👌🏽🙌🏽.

Thanks for reading my dear ~ 😘

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arrliinn last year

Lol yeah, I can totally relate. Except that mine's divided by 3. 😅

crosheille last year

Hahaha!! I knew some Mamas would relate. 😄

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doriangel last year

I totally identify with this post, I have only one child, but we live with my nephews, so we have had to learn to divide everything in four, sometimes I make sure that each one gets the whole piece or that some of them get something special, not only for my son, also for them.

I think we have two interesting things here, you grow up learning to share, to not be selfish or believe that you deserve to have more than others, but on the other side is that you learn to conform and that is not the idea either, finding a balance in this would be the best. Thanks for sharing, greetings and blessings.

P.S. That cookie looks delicious.

crosheille last year

That's so awesome. We like giving special treats and things as well.

Yes, exactly so. This has really taught my family to be selfless and learn how to share. It's been less stressful with how we've been doing things now. They understand that just because they may not get certain things doesn't mean we love them any less. With the way inflation is going we've had to cut down on our special treats anyway so we're also learning how to go without the extras. 😄

Thanks so much for reading and commenting. Many blessings to you ~

moetry7993 last year

Hey such as life, to be able to split and share does have its seasons! Looks like now you’re in the season of “you may not get everything someone else gets” doesn’t mean you’re not valued and it doesn’t mean you are being treated unfairly.

crosheille last year

Yes for sure. That’s very true. They are learning that now and understand that getting less doesn’t mean you’re loved or valued less. This is a good learning lesson anyway because they need to know they won’t always get what they want in life.

Thanks for reading and commenting sis ~ 😘

danielcarrerag last year

I laughed with your anecdote a lot, I only have two children, but it's exactly the same, whatever I eat they want to "share", but I also identify a lot with my life as a son, we are 4 brothers, my mom was a survivor to please us all.

crosheille last year

Hahaha!!! So glad you got a laugh 😄. I knew other parents would relate to this. The last time I split up something small I literally laughed out loud and said "what am I doing and why am I doing it?" Lol

Oh yea, I can only imagine what your mom went through with the four of you boys. Hats off to her ~ 😊

albertocova last year

Interesante reflexión, siempre es bueno mostrar a nuestros hijos el valor de compartir pero en abundancia para que Dios nos de grandes provisiones.

crosheille last year

I couldn't agree more! Thanks for adding your input ~

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amoreyl last year

Oh, I salute you for being such. It's a great attitude worth emulating. It reminds me of my grandfather way back then. No matter what food he was bringing he made sure that everybody should have such.

crosheille last year

Thank you so much. I really worked hard to keep it that way, it's just more challenging now that they're older. I think this new lesson of learning you can't always get everything you want or get exactly what everyone else gets is just as important. It’s a lesson of being content and selfless.

Thanks for your comment 😊 ~

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amoreyl last year

Indeed it is. You are welcome. God bless.

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crosheille last year

God bless you too ~

mosupholstery last year

This is really good. It simple means you really love them and care for them all. And i observe the of difference size and i believe the biggest will go to the first child. Hope so?
Keep it up thanks for sharing