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Good day dear Hivers, I wish you all a happy and blissful weekend. I am very happy to be able to post for the first time in this wonderful community and I want to use this medium to thank the admin @galenkp for his efforts and dedication.
My weekend is full of blissful and laughter because I learnt something very important today which made me realize my strength and flaws as regards relationship with opposite sex and I would love to share the knowledge with lovely people in this community.
THE 7Cs OF RELATIONSHIP
CARE
To care for some one simply means to show interest in the person's well-being and to possibly render any assistance you can in order to support the individual's well-being. I have come to realize that there won't be a genuine care if love is not there. Love and caring works hand in hand.
You can't claim to love someone without showing any atom of care towards that person.
Love is best seen in action and not by mere talking about how much you love your partner ☺️CLARITY
There should not be any iota of confusion or inconsistency about what the person had said about who he or she is. The life of your partner should be crystalline clear to you,no room for double minded. Many young girls' destinies have been ruined because they were carried away by flattering words and promises that doesn't even exist. Sometime ago,a young man approached me when I was preparing for my final exam in secondary school and he told me that he's already in the university... My instinct told me that he was lying but I have to keep quiet to avoid insulting him that moment. Few months after,I met the young man in an examination hall where I went for my university entrance exam 🤣🤣 He saw me but he didn't know where and how to start explaining himself.COMMUNICATION
No relationship can survive without communications. Communication in the context of relationship include exchange of text messages,chats and phone calls. Communication in any relationship ought to be a two side something. When only one person is doing the talking,it will be a boredom and load to the person in the relationshipCONTENT
Content as used here implies making an attempt to understand what the person has inside and what the person can offer in the relationship. Never be in a relationship where your partner has nothing to offer. It must not be money or material stuffs, ideas and advice is also very important in people's live. Be in a relationship where your partner can assist you in growing both financially, emotionally, spiritually and psychologically.COMMITMENT
Commitment means being dedicated to someone you are in relationship with. Commitment is like the bedrock of every relationship. The easiest way to know if the relationship you are into will lead to marriage is by checking the level of commitment of your partner.CONSISTENCY
Many started relationship and along line decided to quit because they are tired of their partner which results to wasting of time, resources and energy.
Never allow anybody to use you and catch cruise in the name of being in a relationship. A story of a girl who tried to take her life because her boyfriend ended things with her after 6 years just merely because the lady asked him if their relationship will lead to marriage.
LASTLY
- CONVICTION
You need to be assured that based on what you have seen, known about the person and how you feel in your heart,you have no iota of doubt that you are doing the right thing. Don't allow anyone to pressurize you into any relationship that you are not prepared for. Take your time and study your partner well and when you are full convinced that he or she is the right person,you can now take the relationship to another level
Thanks for reading and anticipate for another write up
Your constructive criticism is welcome provided it makes me to grow more in my writing because I'm still learning and learning never ENDS
