No one is above life, it's unpredictability and you cannot do anything about that.
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It is not in your power to decide the kind of music life will play for you, but you have the choice of how you dance to the music playing. Therefore focus on the dance you have power and make your move well, and don't worry if the music is interesting or not, because you cannot change it.
There are things you don't have power on, and number one is when life happens to you. You should stop reacting to life and learn how to respond to it. It is not everytime you react to bad things that happen to you in a bad way.
You have the choice of staying positive or negative in any kind of situation. When you choose to remain positive no matter what happens, things around you start changing from negative to positive. Positivity always leads to a positive outcome, even when at first it was a negative one.
Self awareness begins when you start accepting that something are above your power and control. It is your duty to manage the situations in your life positively, no matter what it was before. I have decided to stop worrying about my problems and start focusing my energy on how I can create the best solution for it.