Happy and blessed day to all of you, my dear and appreciated friends, members of this beautiful community, welcome to my blog, so important when we are just starting a new month, I want to share with all of you about a topic of great importance such as time. quality with our children.
I know that many of us have heard before the phrase that says "it is not the quantity that matters but the quality" because this also applies to these family situations because many of us think that the important thing is to be there, to be there and for our children to see us, just to be present.
Sin embargo les puedo asegurar que lo más importante no es solo el estar allí, si no el estar pendiente, el hacernos sentir, y prestarle la atención necesaria, el cariño y amor familiar, apoyarlos.
pues para darles un ejemplo yo puedo decirles que yo dedico todo el día a mis pequeños porque pasó el día en casa con ellos, y puedo decir a todos que yo soy una excelente madre porque dedico todo mi dia a mis hijos, Pero esto no vale de nada si yo paso el dia al lado de mis pequeños con un telefono en la mano y no les presto la minima atención a los niños, si a pesar de estar en casa estoy en mi mundo, en mis novelas, pintandome las uñas y no los atiendo como deberia.
However, I can assure you that the most important thing is not only to be there, but to be attentive, to make us feel, and to give them the necessary attention, affection and family love, and support them.
Well, to give you an example, I can tell you that I dedicate all day to my little ones because I spent the day at home with them, and I can tell everyone that I am an excellent mother because I dedicate all my day to my children, but this is not worth it. You're welcome if I spend the day next to my little ones with a phone in my hand and I don't pay the slightest attention to the children, if despite being at home I'm in my world, in my novels, painting my nails and not I take care of them as I should.
El tiempo pasa y nuestros niños crecen muy rápido y debemos de pensar que cada etapa y cada momento especial de nuestros pequeños son momentos únicos e irrepetibles pues no podemos volver el tiempo atrás para disfrutar de sus primeros pasos o sus primeras palabras pero sí podemos disfrutar del poco o mucho tiempo que tenemos para pasar en familia. Pues en un futuro nuestros hijos tal vez no recuerden cuántos juguetes caros pudiste comprarle o cuánto dinero le dabas para ir al colegio y cubrir todos sus gustos estos niños que en un futuro serán hombres y mujeres lo que más recordarán son tus enseñanzas y los momentos de calidad que pasaron en familia los momentos felices eso son los que más quedarán impregnados en su memoria.This is where the previous phrase is denoted because it does not matter if I am at home all day 24 hours a day with the children if I am not offering them quality family time, which is why it is also of great importance because I know that as parents we have multiple occupations to be able to provide well-being to our little ones and sometimes it is difficult for us to be able to spend great time with family, however how important it is that even though you can only offer a couple of hours a day to your little ones, those hours are of quality and love Well, I know that your children will value those two hours more than the entire day you can give them if you are not giving them adequate attention.
Time passes and our children grow very quickly and we must think that each stage and each special moment of our little ones are unique and unrepeatable moments because we cannot go back in time to enjoy their first steps or their first words but we can enjoy the little or a lot of time we have to spend with family.
Well, in the future our children may not remember how many expensive toys you could buy them or how much money you gave them to go to school and cover all their tastes. These children who in the future will be men and women, what they will remember most are your teachings and the moments of quality that they spent as a family, the happy moments that are the ones that will remain most impregnated in their memory.
The quality time that we can give to our children and our family will also be of great importance not only for our children but for ourselves because as the years go by we will be able to remember all those moments and feel proud that we formed such wonderful beings as They are our children. My dear friends, this has been a small reflection that I was doing a couple of days ago due to a situation that I experienced with my little girl who, while I was at home using the telephone for a necessary situation, my daughter looked at me and called me and called me and I was involved. on the phone until the little girl told me that I preferred my phone to her. Even though it was only this day, I felt totally bad and this made me reflect and think about this issue because I know that it is something very common in many homes.
El contenido en esta publicación es totalmente original y Todas las Fotos son de mi autoría y fueron tomadas con mi Celular Redmi 9I say goodbye, leaving this as a reflection and hoping to read your comments on this topic.
It will be until a new opportunity, greetings and blessings
The content in this publication is completely original and all the photos are my own and were taken with my Redmi 9 cell phone.