Para mí como hija y como madre considere que la presencia de un padre en la vida de sus hijos es algo de Gran importancia pues este lugar no puede ser llenado por cualquier persona aunque mamá quiera hacerlo nunca será igual. Desde siempre ha sido papá el encargado de trabajar de sol a sol para llevar el sustento al hogar sacrificando todo su día y algunos momentos irrepetibles pues sabe querer depende el bienestar y la comodidad de una familia y es mamá la encargada de la casa de los niños y todo lo concerniente a la formación de los mismos.Have a happy and blessed day all of you. As every week it is a great pleasure for me to go through this beautiful community to share some experience with all of you. On this occasion I want to touch on a topic that I know is not the same in all cases. It is about the issue of parents being present for their children in the most important moments.
I know that this is a very delicate topic and I would not want this post to offend or offend any of my colleagues, which is why I will speak to you from my thoughts and my experience.
La verdad Yo admiro a estos padres pues a pesar de no estar en momentos importantes para sus hijos ha sido por tratar de no defraudarlos al momento de brindarles lo necesario en el hogar sé que muchos piensan que está mal pues momentos importantes en la vida de nuestros hijos no volverán y un día de trabajo puede perderlo cualquiera sin embargo hay veces que no pensamos en cuan difícil puede ser la situación de elegir entre estar y no estar y cuáles son las circunstancias que engloban esta situación.For me as a daughter and as a mother, I consider that the presence of a father in the lives of his children is something of great importance because this place cannot be filled by just anyone, even if mom wants to do it, it will never be the same.
Dad has always been in charge of working from dawn to dusk to provide sustenance for the home, sacrificing his entire day and some unrepeatable moments because he knows how to love the well-being and comfort of a family depends on it, and mom is in charge of the children's house. and everything related to their training.
The truth is that I admire these parents because despite not being there at important moments for their children, it has been because they try not to disappoint them when providing them with what they need at home. I know that many think that it is wrong because important moments in the lives of our children Children will not return and anyone can lose a day of work, however there are times when we do not think about how difficult the situation of choosing between being and not being can be and what are the circumstances that encompass this situation.
In my case with my husband, I have been very lucky to find a great person who from the beginning has been totally committed to our children. For those who already know me, you will know that I have a small family with a child with non-verbal autism and a little girl of 3 years old.
From the beginning, when my son was diagnosed, we understood the need and the support that he needed from both of us, so his father left the job he had so that I could work in the morning hours and be able to take care of the child at that time and then later. When I get home I go out to work.
Para los padres de un niño con condición sabemos lo difícil que es esta situación y lo importante que es el apoyo familiar, el poder tener a esa persona que cuando mamá ya no puede más él está allí. Ahora que tenemos otra pequeña de 3 años ha sido aún más importante pues casi todas las actividades de siempre de año escolar son el mismo día por lo que nos corresponde tener que dividirnos y uno acompañar a la niña y otro al niño para así ellos puedan ver el apoyo de sus padres allí motivándolos.The truth is that we have formed a great team because the well-being of our family depends on it. It is a great blessing. Being able to count on a father who is always present and who has sacrificed his job, his friendships and many other things to be there for this little one when he needs it.
I confess that at my little one's school he is the one they know because it is dad who has been in charge of taking care of and staying at school and in his therapies with my little one from morning until noon every day without fatigue.
For the parents of a child with a condition, we know how difficult this situation is and how important family support is, being able to have that person who, when mom can't take it anymore, is there. Now that we have another 3-year-old little girl, it has been even more important because almost all of the usual activities during the school year are on the same day, so we have to divide ourselves and have one accompany the girl and the other accompany the boy so they can see the support of their parents there motivating them.
Mis queridos amigos esta es parte de mi experiencia, y mis vivencias que el día de hoy quise compartir con todos ustedes. Me despido por esta oportunidad agradecida por su visita y apoyo.I know that each parent has their own way of thinking and handling situations with their children in their own way and the fact that I cannot be there on certain dates does not mean that they do not care. I say this from my own experience because my father was always working sun to sun and there were very few times that he could accompany us on special occasions. But that didn't mean he stopped giving us all the love and affection necessary from a father.
However, I admire my husband immensely for this dedication, love and dedication, and I know that if my children are grateful, they will know how to reward him with as much love as he has given them.
Todas las Fotos son de mi autoría y fueron tomadas con mi Celular Redmi 9My dear friends, this is part of my experience, and my experiences that today I wanted to share with all of you. I say goodbye for this opportunity, grateful for your visit and support.
All Photos are my authorship and were taken with my Redmi 9 Cellphone
