Wasted My Time On Hive?

in #hive-1538502 years ago

Have always had a knack of making proper use of my time. One of my passions is making good use of my precious time. If I have any project whatsoever I am working on, I always plan ahead to meet up with deadlines. I don't know if it's a gift but I am just so good at it.

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During my University days am always the first when it comes to time management, woke up early, among the first student in class for lectures, always the first to attend meetings, the first to finish reading for exams and writing some, the first to finish a project, and the first to meet up with appointment, oops! I already wrote that.

I love my time and if I am not using it, I am spending it, if I am not spending it, I am expanding my knowledge with it through writing or research, and have never had lapses nor mistakes. But perfection always makes mistakes. Recently I realized I have been wasting my time on a particular project I have been working on for good five years and it keeps pissing me off each time I think about it.

Am not supposed to share this here, as embarrassing as it may sound, but I have made a note to keep no secrets from Hive, so here it goes.

2018 I had a dream, a goal, or should I say a mission, and that was to gain financial freedom, through rendering service, giving out value and having fun. My main reason was to help others who need help the best way I can.

I was 21 then you can imagine the irony, "a 21 year old seeking financial freedom with touch and candle". Nothing else matters, I was ready to do anything just to accomplish my dream and I mean anything.

For the past 5 years have been combing the internet just to accomplish my goal, During those times have been wasting it on malicious sites for a whole year, moved over to affiliate marketing, bought a training kit of 108k didn't work out for 4 months, moved to ponzi scheme was duped, then to survey sites, writing for blogs for minor fee, and then onto the next thing and the next and the next….. I was in a dark circle with no end and time seems to be moving pretty fast.

Nothing seems to be working out, I wanted to accomplish my dream before I clock 30, I wanted to be able to gain passive income but yet am going nowhere with this.

After my schooling and service year, I Got a job as an HR 2020. My pay was ok, at least I got partial financial freedom but not passive income. I was still working for my money instead of the other way around. So I continued my search.

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Most of my pay was used to help families and friends in need, once in two months gave to the less privileged and paid homage to God, I went back to the internet and I continued searching for passive income, that was when I found Hive.

Have known Hive for 2 years now, but after much deliberation i decided to give it a try and joined last year, at first it wasn't what i was expecting and at that same time my boy was just 3 weeks old, the whole motherhood thing was still new to me, I had to dropped Hive making the biggest mistake.

After that I went on and continued wasting my time searching for passive income online. I saw a platform where they promised to double your investment x10, poured a whooping 80k in and was duped. Hey! News flash if it's too good to be true, then it's not true at all.

I had no were else to go and wasted 5 years seeing the same old bullshit on the internet. That was when it dawned on me. I abandoned Hive for 6 months so I decided to go back to it. For 3 months I studied Hive, getting to know it much better to see if it was really what I have been searching for.

Without commenting on posts, nor posting, I read others' success stories, how hive have helped them gain passive income by just being consistent and patient. A friend told me about this once when I first joined but I didn't listen. I read thons of stories about how others made it from scratch.

I mean It's not as if they had super powers like Black Adam and Wonder women, nor did they have a cape like good old Doctor Strange, or got lots of hairs like medusa. They were ordinary people like me, so what the hell is wrong with me? If they can do it, why can't I?

After much investigation, and learning. I regret wasting 5 good years of my time on the internet and wasting extra 6 months on Hive doing absolutely nothing, i mean think about it, if i had found Hive then 5 years ago, and apply this formula i would have gotten to dolphin by now, or maybe if i had invested those money i was duped online on hive engine tokens or Leo i know the impact that will make for me and others.

Have been ignoring my mission, rendering service, giving out value, helping others, meeting people, making friends, I was just blinded doing it all wrong and the other way around. During the years I have been looking for a shortcut towards passive income but there have and will always be none.

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Finding hive I realize investing your time on rendering service, giving value, putting a smile on someone's face, helping others, supporting them, being committed, consistent, patience, and just focusing on the fun. That, that, my friend is your passive income right there.

The sooner I become aware of all this the better I start making proper use of my time. In every mistake having awareness is the very lesson. I quit on Hive before because I didn't have the awareness how helpful it can be.

Right now I have taken Hive to be my beloved husband and am gonna walk down this journey with it till death do us part, for better or worse. I mean what do I have to lose? Absolutely nothing.!

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investing your time on rendering service, giving value, putting a smile on someone's face, helping others, supporting them, being committed, consistent, patience, and just focusing on the fun. That, that, my friend is your passive income right there.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Haha Thanks

That's the mindset! After wasting so much time on unmeaningful projects in the interweb, landing on Hive and taking us seriously can be a good move to make.
Best of luck on this journey!
I pray it becomes meaningful and well rewarding :)

Yahh i know it will thanks for stopping by

Honestly we have absolutely nothing to lose. Continue hiving 😉

Of course thank you

Wow you're back to hive
Make every time here count and sure you can still reach your goal of having a financial free life

Yahh am sure i can, and of course I will, thank you

Look on the bright side, at least you have realized your mistakes and you will never make them again, that is priceless

Absolutely, realizing ones mistake is the ingredient source

Nice to see your dedication here. On behalf of the community, thank you.

When I first got here, I couldn't catch support. I remember I got my rep up to like 40 or something and got downvoted down to 20 something. I didn't catch curation until about my second year on the platform while steadily leading the league in downvotes. My content used to receive an average of 20-40 downvotes each.

But, eventually they came around.

What you've done here is expressed vulnerability simply by being yourself. Maintain your transparency and sincerity, and don't allow yourself to release content you'd be embarrassed if your friends in real life saw.

And everything will work out the way it's supposed to. = }

You're doing great.

Everything noted, thanks so much for your support and love

I think everyone has been a victim of Ponzi scheme at some point I. Our lives, I had this same experience 2 years ago when I Abandoned my hive account and investment in one quintessential investment company, I never got my money back, I spent years regretting my decisions.

I'm glad you found your way back that is all that matters.

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Hahaha, Slow and steady wins the race, no fast lane in get rich quick. Thanks for stopping by

You are not the first person who didn't see a good future in hive. It's really a pity on how you wasted those years and money in those Ponzi

Glad you are back now
And I hope you will smile at last
Waste no time anymore
Time doesn't wait for anyone
#dreemport

Yah wish others wont make the same mistake with hive. And yes am making proper use of my time now. Thanks for stopping by

Absolutely nothing dear. Hive had helped and still helping many achieve their aims to help and be better. I am glad you finally found your way here after been duped.

You got that right. Thanks

You are welcome.

Good a thing you came back to hive. My dear I too wasted my precious time online looking for what is not looking for me....

We forget that time wasted is gone forever.

I hope you find financial freedom too

haha guess we on the same boat, Yahhh time invested yields more profit than money invested. Hive thought me time is so much valuable. Thanks and wish you financial freedom too

I am glad that you're back to hive. I hope you get what you're looking for. 😊

I hope so too, but i know i will, Thanks

You're welcome

I also got distracted for a while trying to find what I already had here, most of the projects that promise a lot (not to say all) are a scam. Then I reacted and decided to focus on Hive and I have many plans to be here for a long time.

Regards.

The internet this days is just filled with scams, glad am seeing hive from others point of view. And thanks a bunch for stopping by

Finding hive I realize investing your time on rendering service, giving value, putting a smile on someone's face, helping others, supporting them, being committed, consistent, patience, and just focusing on the fun. That, that, my friend is your passive income right there.

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Sure of course , thanks

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This was a hilarious one. Just like yourself, many other people have wasted a lot of years and have been duped so many times just in a means to get passive income. Good thing you've finally decided to give hive your all. I'm certain it's going to work out for you darling.

Oh i know it will, all out of options, Thanks a bunch

You're most welcome ✨

It is a shame that you did not stay for the whole Talk Time with Tengo show Freda, I am going to send you some tokens anyway.

I joined Hive in Sept 2021 because some of my friends from Read.cash another blogging site had joined hive.

During those 4 months from Sept 2021 to Jan 2022 I kept leaving Hive thinking I was wasting time only for friends to pull me back.

And I am grateful that they did that.

Rule number 1 on Hive is turn up, keep turning up, keep commenting and engaging.

When you post make sure it is in the right community. Start small, don't try to do too much all at once. Find a community you like and get to know people, join their discord. You are Nigerian so there are lots of Nigerian or Naija communities. Also Neoxian on Discord is full of Naija talk!

There is so much Hiving that is done in discord!

Are you in Dreemport that is a great way to get exposure to your posts and help you on your Hive journey.

Perhaps @samsmith1971 or @deraaa could better explain @dreemport and help...

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Read.cash i tried it once but didn't work out is that site still functioning? Wouldn't know thou. Your friends did you a favor pulling you back in the ship wish i had friends like that.

Well you dame right am working with hive now for now am just enjoying the fun, expecting nothing more or less

Am in various discord except neoxian will check them out right away

And yes am also in dreemport, right from the time i signed in on hive registered with them but i recently start using it.

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You know what baby, I experienced most of this at 19 years of age. Lost over 300k to things like that. That however opened my eyes and doubled my antennas. I became cautious, skeptic but this didn't deter me; instead, it pushed me to educate myself more. Read more. Do more.

Being financially free in a world of so many limitations can be difficult especially for a woman. Yet, there's what we call the CAN DO mindset. Your experiences might be bad but they sure are experiences and this gives you an edge!!! Haha.

I came on Hive in 2021. Trust me, Hive five years ago would have made you quit. It wasn't Hive at all if you read the history. I'm almost two years on Hive. I haven't been consistent which has stunted my growth but I've made beautiful friends. Among them? @tengolotodo whose comment is here too.

Showing up daily, engaging and being awesomely you might prove difficult daily but it pays. It's always worth it.

Haha! doubled your antenna, i recently doubled mine..

Hmmm is that so was Hive 5 years ago that bad? Have heard stories about it and was wondering

Well i for sure know it wont be easy to be consistent especially if there aint motivation. But like i said what do i got to loss

Well, we have to find that motivation! That little thing that'll give us the boost we need when we are loosing fire.

yah that fuel, i get the point sometimes its difficult to find the right fuel

You'll find it!!

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