Think like a Viking: Part thirty nine

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No harvest is had without the seed first being sown.


Each Thursday I select a Viking quote, sometimes randomly but ofttimes based upon relevance or meaning to my life at that point in time. Despite these phrases being over a thousand years old I believe most can still offer value in modern society and I find it interesting to ponder, weigh and measure them. original im src


This week's Viking quote

No harvest is had without the seed first being sown - King Olaf Trygvisson's Saga

I'm not one of those people who has often received that which is not earned; I'm not the man to hold out my hand and expect something to fall upon it without earning it. Rather, I'm the man who takes my hands, does something with them, and then receives (or not), commensurate to my effort.

I have always had to work hard, physically, emotionally and mentally, for what I have gained with little coming easily and it's for that reason I protect fiercely the ground I have gained: the things. Much like the Vikings of old did I guess. I suppose that's why I abhor the expectation ethos that seems so prevalent in society these days, and won't reward it. I'm a, reward for effort sort of man, and can be extremely generous but I need to see that a person has made some effort.

I apply that ethos to the real world and also Hive a place where there's so many who seem to expect reward, feel entitled to it and yet apply little to no effort to gain it. I wonder if they do the same in the real world, and can only assume they do.

I chose this Viking quote today as I recently came across a Hive-user who applies very little effort when it comes to posting, barely makes comments of relevance on other people's posts or responds to comments on their own and generally does a pretty poor job all round...but spends an inordinate amount of time whinging and complaining about their lack of rewards. Maybe I'm just crazy, but I don't see how a person applying so little effort could think they deserve reward for it.

I don't know where the expectation and entitlement ethos come from but society of plagued by it and that, naturally, extends to Hive. Why is it so prevalent? I don't know, however on an almost daily basis I see it in action and it's disgusting, lazy, repellant and inexcusable. I'll not reward it here or in the real world.

Applying effort seems out of fashion. I mean when it comes to work ethic and even personal traits like like manners, courtesy and respect also...Again, a lack of effort, care and anything resembling responsibility. Of course, I'm speaking generally here as there are some who hold to the old ways, take ownership and responsibility for themselves and what rewards they receive.

I believe in the old saying, we reap from the harvest that we ourselves sow, and that's what the Viking quote above refers to. Whether it's a material gain or something more valuable like a relationship we need to sow the right seeds then nurture them so that they grow to deliver a bountiful harvest. Invest effort into relationships and they will return in kind; they'll be deeper, more rewarding and enduring. This goes for your personal, social and work relationships...and of course on hive too. Neglect them and they will go away.


That's it for this week, a thousand year-old Viking quote that promotes the effort for reward ethos and tells us that we will reap the rewards of that which we sow.

In the comments below, please feel free to disagree with my interpretation and add your own if you like, tell a story around this quote or general topic or simply react to it and let me know what you think, how you see it, how it relates to you or someone you know.

Skol.


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Design and create your ideal life, don't live it by default - Tomorrow isn't promised so be humble and kind

Can't agree more, man!
Humbleness always pays off. And the reward you get ensures peace of mind; no matter in which state your mind is in.

Thank you for making my morning more promising ☺️

Btw, I really like your posts starting with a motivational quote. 🙏🙏

Hi, thanks for your message.

We live in a world where humility is much practiced I guess. I mean generally. It's good though, as the alternatives sometimes are not well regarded. Being arrogant, egotistical and boastful may seem regarding (social media sites thrive on it) but when it comes to real people and real relationships probably not so much. A little humility goes a long way.

Thanks for your kind comment.

Boastfulness is the main culprit that ruins a relationship. Unlike social media, it can't leave a lasting impression on social people, real people. And those who are going well with arrogance are just pretending to be being okay with that, but lack a solid ground. Thanks for your meticulous thoughts on it.

This Viking's quote will be more and more relevant. I think we are not far from a time when we will depend on ourselves for our food. I still remember how normal it was to produce your own food. Of course, you can't cover everything, but at least the main products and you can still exchange them with others. Here I must say how mad I am on our ancestors. It is only about passing down money, gold and land. Why not plants? I would be freaking happy if my father leave me an orchard with idk 50 trees. And I would continue with that and pass to the next one even richer orchard and garden. Food forest if you like. Maybe after this crisis, we will reevaluate our norms. Our children don't need 5 apartments in the city. Rather some land and a good planting plan.

Self-reliance isn't well regarded these days it seems, not widely anyway. Still, people (individuals) have the ability to take some ownership and responsibility for themselves. People think they are so smart, and yet there's so much they cannot do for themselves. Googling everything doesn't make a person smart.

I agree with you on the food thing for sure. Food and water shortages are going to be a thing.

Ouuu I know that. it is hard to be self-reliant. But small communities will get there easier. I just need a financial partner for buying 300.000 km2 of land where we could settle a small community. Sure, call us hippies if you want. Full bellied and happy hippies :)

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Invest effort into relationships and they will return in kind; they'll be deeper, more rewarding and enduring.

I love this! I joined Hive to hold myself to account to write more regularly and had no idea when I did so that I would find such incredible engagement and community on the platform. I value people immensely and this quote of yours truly resonates. I can attest to the truth that lies behind it, both on and off-chain. Nurturing genuine relationships with other people is one of the best things that human beings can accomplish in their lives. !PIZZA !ALIVE !LUV reblogged.

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Hey Sam, thanks for your cool comment. I'm a non-peopley person meaning I'm very comfortable to spend time with myself; I limit my connections (in the real world) for that reason and have very high standards. My circle is small, but incredibly valuable. This is why I invest a lot of time, effort and emotion into my relationships and, get a lot back from them. It just makes sense.

There's so many people of value on Hive, most I've probably not even met. Those I have though...well, they deserve just as much effort as I give those in real life.

We're here on this big round thing we call Earth and whilst we'll not always get along with everyone, we have the ability to show humility, kindness, respect and courtesy and, I'd say, most deserve it as a baseline...until they prove they do not...and that's when we move on.

Anyway, thanks for your engagement and taking a read.

💯% completely respect that. I'm probably somewhere in the middle lol. I love spending time on my own and thrive on it, especially in the still quiet of the late-night and early morning and I equally enjoy a small/medium-size circle of close friends and family. If we don't invest emotionally and share our vulnerabilities with those closest to us, it becomes harder to create meaningful relationships built on trust so I am with you on the level of investment that you put into your relationships. Big ditto there 😊

One thing I find interesting, and this is something that a lot of us always say... we refer to Hive and then real life. I do it too. But I was pondering on this the other day and thinking, you know what, Hive is part of my real life, and the people on Hive are real people. The only difference is that I have not met them in person . Does this make them not real? or Hive not real life? I had to conclude that my answer was that they were very much a part of my real life. Heck, some Hivers engage with me far more regularly and at a far deeper level than some people that I know in person... and so recently my mentality has shifted to thinking in terms of people I know in person as opposed to in real life.

It is true though that when you have met with someone in person and connected in person or have the opportunity to relate to them on that level...sit down and have a cuppa, go shopping, hang out and bbq, whatever the case may be, that we build additional touchpoints in the relationships and this is probably what makes them feel more real to us than a name on a screen. But I guess it all comes down to the old adage...that you get back what you give in life and that does not have to be limited to only those physically present in our lives.

You're right, Hive is real life as we're all living it. I guess it's just a convenient way of making a distinction between online and not. The relationships can be similar if course, but a good relationship is much better in the flesh than online. So...Give me real life any day.

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I agree with what you wrote. I came here not knowing how to do anything. I received votes fairly based on this fact. The harder I worked on learning what I needed to make better posts, write better, and so on the votes I received showed my improvement. I am proud of what I have accomplished on the Blockchain.

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I think that is the key. People do not care how they get there anymore. They do not care what they have to do to get there as long as it is easy.

People only look at the surface. Just selfies of people's lives. They do not look behind the camera to see the days spent for that perfect photo.

No one wants to work for anything, not all, but so many more than when I grew up...it makes me sad.

Great post.
I hope your Thursday? is going wonderful!

Corner-cutting is the order of the day, here on Hive, and within society in general. Shoddy workmanship, poor customer service, tardiness, expectation and handout ethos, entitlement...It's a plague.

My Thursday went well, just finishing up at work and I'll hit a café for a coffee and wind-down before heading home. I hope you're well also.