Everyone knows that what a person values is what he will care about and improve in these things. Likewise, if you value yourself, you will strive to create a better version of yourself. The value you represent on the outside is a function of the value you create on the inside.
To add value to others, your life must be valuable. Of course, you can only share what you have. Likewise, value creation starts from within because it is what determines how you will create value for your world. If everyone were to develop themselves, you will be amazed at how much value that is in the world now.
There are things that respond not to strength or creativity but to the application of knowledge. If you want to open a giant door, do you force the mechanic on the door or get the keys and use them to open the door? As you can see, the key is very important to open the door. Likewise, a person who has knowledge will have keys to unlock certain doors and this increases one's value.
People may not like your face, they may not even like the color of your skin, but if you have what they need, they will have no choice but to come to you and ask for your help. Because they know you'll add value when you arrive. The world is adopting a new approach where the only solution is for people to take precedence. Once you stop creating value or you stop solving the world's problems, your importance tends to decline, but as you create value, your overall value increases.
We all know why Mark Zuckerberg is among the most valuable and respectable man in the world now. It is simply because of the value it creates in the world of social media. If no one is looking for you, before you start blaming your fate, ask yourself what value you have added. If you don't add any value or you're not sure about the answer, then you've already got your answer.
You need to work on your self, and create value that will make you indisposable. Many people may be your age or even your classmates, but what sets them apart in the long run is the level of value they create. remember this; By providing solutions to problems, you increase the overall value.
Thank You.