How are you doing? How has been with you since the you had your kids?I hope you are trying to get everything under control,i know how overwhelming it can be taking care of these little ones and their siblings.(i just have one but I understand)
They are precious gift to us, we treasure them so much that we can lay down our lives for them, we can even go miles to make sure they are fine. Well done mummy 🙌.
My reason for writing to you today is because I just noticed that while we give our whole to make this precious gift happy we end up loosing ourselves. Some people say we loss it all to get nothing,from marriage(change of your name), to child bearing (lossing both shape,self and even health)We no longer have the strength and time to shine as we use to before, because we are busy using
our light to brighten others while we go off.
Random picture from my gallery
The responsibility of being a wife,mother and a daughter in-law can be exhausting.
Please don't give up on being you yet.
Be more than just a wife to your husband.
Be more than just a mother to your children.
Be you, Be beautiful inside and out chase that goal and achieve it believe in yourself. You can achieve anything you put your mind into.
Be financially liberated to do anything you desire without having to wait for your spouse or someone else.be enough to support your spouse and yourself,be enough to walk away from toxicity.
Be intelligent enough to bring ideas that wouldn't be pushed aside. Be strong enough to stand up for yourself and speak with boldness so no one would take you for granted.
At the end of it all you have just yourself to nurture, to cherish and to love. When you can do this for yourself you can do it for your children they are looking up to you. Be their motivation.
Most importantly beautiful valuable to yourself, learn that skill, grow that business, build that relationship, read that book, enrol in that class just do anything that would increase your worth.
Be an asset
I hope this get to you.