To answer the attractive question of the friend @galenkp for this weekend in the community #WEEKENDEXPERIENCES, I had to sit down and feel whole, in the character of the authentic girl and always looking to do everything by herself that defines me; and thus understand, what would be my reasons to invite a boy on a date.
Although at this moment I don't remember ever having invited anyone on a date, something that I used to do a lot was go dancing, and in that place if I approached dancing in a very daring way with whom I danced very well, and perhaps that could end in a date or a simple ¨we danced all night and it was fun¨.
But to be honest, from the outset it would be the physical aspect that would lead me to make the decision, and although I am not talking about a fittnes boy, I am referring to that Compatibility and Connection, that is, that chemistry that arises and that begins with the appearance tax, gestures, attitudes and places of coincidence that makes us similar, without many words in between. Perhaps with my invitation I could take that friendship or connection to a more intimate level of compatibility, never of romance.
Another aspect that would lead me to take the initiative to invite a boy is because I would feel a certain Control, since I am the one inviting. I would feel control in my hands, as I am inviting a person who really attracts me. I would feel empowered and confident in taking that first step. It would be the most open way to show my personality, by showing independence and breaking with traditional gender roles. In the end, what could go wrong? I am the right person to know what I want and look for in a boy. And if life brings him to the naked eye, why not invite him on a date.
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