MY FEARS ARE MY MOTIVATION

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Our fear has one way of motivating us because it is one thing we do not want to be a victim of and so we try to avoid it. I call it my motivation.

Everyone has one thing we do not want to be victims of, it is what we tag FEARS and one way or the other becomes our motivation

We are bound to make mistakes in life we learn from our mistakes one thing I try to avoid every time is never to make a huge mistake I can't get back from and to never be a victim of my greatest fear in life.

fear of being victims makes me take extra caution and try to be on the right track always.

These fear have huge consequences when we become victims and only the strong get to put through.

FEAR OF BECOMING A DISAPPOINTMENT

There's an expression that shows disappointment, it just clearly says all that is needed without the use of words, it is an expression that expresses shame.
it is always caused by the non fulfillment of hopes, expectations, and displeasure.

One great fear I try to avoid every day of my life is having to get a disappointed look from my parents, friends, loved ones, and those that look up to me
the type of look that shows
"We never expected this from you"
we thought you are better than this"
"I believed in you"
"what prompts this act"

fear of becoming a disappointment and an epitome of shame

FEAR OF HAVING THE WRONG PARTNER

living life can be smooth and peaceful when you have the right partner and likewise living life can be tiring and suffocating when you have the wrong partner then every day looks longer than expected, home becomes an allergy, and peace of mind becomes hard to get.
My greatest fear is having to be joined to the wrong person for the rest of my life and living life with no peace of mind.
That is scary and should be added to one thousand ways to die because all it brings is no peace of mind.

FEAR OF FAILING

The fear of failure gives me a different level of motivation in all I do
fear of failing to achieve my dreams
fear of failing at parenting
fear of failing as a whole

My fears build me
My fears make me stronger
My fears are my motivation

I invite @midemanuel and @deraaa to come share what their greatest fear is

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The end of this post seem like a poem 😂 really cool and I'm glad to know that your fears are your motivation, that is what it's supposed to be to everyone of us.

Fear can cripple anyone who allows it to, so we must work harder not to let it.

Your fears are valid, you're not weird but we hope you work towards winning over it 😊

Yeah fear crippples and are meant to be overcome.
Thank you for dropping by.

Indeed
You're welcome 😊

I think only those who are determined on becoming great in life pay attention to their fears because it is a strength for them.

You are right.

I also have the fear of settling down with the wrong person, I hope our fears doesn't become a reality

It one fear that we all have.
We just need to be very careful.

Fear of disappointment. That is the worst fear ever. When you see those looking up to you and you fail them, it feels like committing suicide but only the strong would pull through.

Fear of choosing the wrong partner too is what is on my mind but we don't have to be afraid because reality will dawn on us, we would get married but we need to be careful with our decisions.

When one fails those looking up to him or her sometimes it always close to suicide you are right.

eventually we will get there we we get to stay glued to a partner we just need to be careful like you've mentioned
Thank you for dropping by.