Desde niña mi mayor deseo de toda la vida a sido ser feliz, no es que no tuviera razones para no serlo, pero soy una persona que siempre tiende a la tristeza, de adulta me he dado cuenta que es un asunto de salud mental, por eso me he esforzado tanto por alcanzar la felicidad y aun continúo, he aprendido a identificar muchas de esas razones que ahora tengo y me hace apreciar más aún mi vida, aunque no me aferro a la vida sabiendo que siempre estamos a un paso de la muerte, me gusta disfrutar de las pequeñas cosas. Es por eso que apenas vi la iniciativa de @damarysvibra de la comunidad Holus&Lotus me puse a escribir sobre esto, me gustaría invitar a participar a @Yetsimar @Ismaelgranados @dayadam
Since I was a child, my greatest wish of all my life has been to be happy, it is not that I had no reason not to be, but I am a person who always tends to sadness, as an adult I have realized that it is a matter of mental health, for That is why I have tried so hard to achieve happiness and I still continue, I have learned to identify many of those reasons that I now have and it makes me appreciate my life even more, although I do not cling to life knowing that we are always one step away from death , I like to enjoy the little things. That's why as soon as I saw the initiative of @damarysvibra from the Holus&Lotus community I started writing about it, I would like to invite @Yetsimar @Ismaelgranados @dayadam to participate
Lo cotidiano / The everyday
Everyday life makes me happy, or rather my current daily life, this includes being at home and seeing my son play most of the time and my mom @yole from here to there doing housework, seeing them together in a space where they are calm and it sure makes me happy, I know that they will not be like this all their lives, so seeing them being happy without even realizing it fills my heart with joy, for example in this photo that I show below, my son was in my bed where I he was writing and he asks me to take a picture of him because the cat lay down near him, without realizing it my mom went to the back accommodating my son's clothes drawer, this photo even shows the perspective of the image that my eyes see , it's like a window to my daily life and I feel that you can feel how happy this makes me.
Satisfacer necesidades básicas / meet basic needs
From Maslow to the least studied person realizes that satisfying basic needs is part of happiness, there are those who think that money does not buy happiness but it is absurd to think that someone who does not have to eat or sleep is going to feel happy, for me this is a health issue, I am hypoglycemic, what regulates my blood sugar is sleeping well and eating well, that includes not skipping meal times, so being able to sleep peacefully without worrying about money or food, for example, being able to eating daily brings happiness to me, it's something basic but you have to be realistic, here I show you a photo of some purchases I made with my mom, something normal and everyday but very significant.
Comprar materiales de trabajo y ponerme a crear / Buy work materials and start creating
I am sure that all weavers, seamstresses, plastic artists and other creators feel happy when they buy materials, we are not happy as much for the result as for the fact of using these materials, my brain produces hormones of joy when I buy some threads to knit or varied materials for the tasks, I don't know how to explain it but I feel full of life and full of ideas and possibilities to create with my hands.
Placer sencillo / simple pleasure
There are many simple things that together constitute happiness, an example of this is being able to enjoy a meal that we like no matter how cheap it may be or watch an episode of a series, these little things are still special, I love eating plantain chips green, this is a simple pleasure, but happiness is greater when the detail comes from someone special, for example a few days ago my mom went out to buy food and without saying anything she came to my room and gave me a bag of toston because there was I saw a girl who was selling fresh tostones and that reminded her that I like them a lot, what can I tell you, it's not about the tostone, it's about the pleasure of enjoying something simple thanks to the love of my mom.
Que mi hijo este conmigo / My son is with me
My son is sometimes like chewing gum 😅 he doesn't want to leave me alone even when I go to the bathroom, sometimes I complain to him and tell him that I'm busy, but he always stays close to me even to play on his tablet or with his toys, sometimes he even lies on top of me, this makes me happy, that he wants to be close to me so much even if he is focused on his business and I on mine, my son is undoubtedly my greatest reason for happiness.
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I hope you liked it. I invite you to read my next publications and I will always be willing to answer your questions and comments, you can also follow me and contact me on any of my social networks. Thank you!