Hate is a very strong word. It is used to describe a dislike for an object or place. But, often times, it is used as an emotion or feeling.
In fact, when someone feels hatred for another person, they often spend much of their time fixating on their anger, contempt, or dislike of the other person.
Have u ever allowed hate to cloud your judgment?
It is hard to decide when your heart is filled with hatred, so many people use to say this. I agree that allowing hate would only lead to regrets, sufferings and destruction. It destroys the mental health as anger make self control lose.
Feeling of hatred could be develop for many reasons. Like feeling of envy as it brings a worst soul and feeling of powerless.
In today's time, no matter how kind or loving we are, we cannot be liked by everyone. The universe will tell us that there are some people who hate us for no reason, who envy us, and would dislike us and destroy us, even when we are not causing any damage to them. They see us as a bad person in their life.
I remember...
Hate had drained my spirit, tarnished my soul and darken my days. It had stopped my ability to think and to solve problems, which was grown from people who were jealous of me just because I was good in my work and everyone use to like me and praise me.
As I was very sensitive and emotional, slowly I was losing confidence and will power for there were people who tried to pull me down but kindness and humbleness was still in me as it embrace my soul.
Sometimes, people behave so good with me because they want something, but when they got things which they wanted, they disappear and say bad things about me. Due to hate, they drag me down by making false rumours about me so that they can ruin by character and reputation. But I always believe that staying at peace, being calm and positive through these difficult situations can always help me.
Due to this, I felt drained though I was able to face the difficult times. Haters would badly hate but I believe that love is the only medicine that can cure hate.
The solution is to let go of hatred
Being hated by others, I never gave up on myself and always hope that things workout for me by staying true to myself as I let go of hatred.
Whenever I use to feel angry, I simply sit and cry loudly so that all the pain and fear can wash out as I kept my heavy feelings with myself, and I learned to let go of hatred by staying positive, by forgiving the person, and by proving myself right.
Be optimistic
No matter how wrong people say about u or how much they hate u, being optimistic builds resilience. Because of this, people feel more in control of their situations and have higher self-esteem. As a human being it is difficult for all of us to remain positive all the time but at least we can try to remain more positive by focusing less on negative side.
Hate is the worst feeling but this is not permanent, and we should never make decisions while we are angry as it can lead to worst decision. And unintentionaly we may hurt someone by our behavior or action.
Ignore the rumours
People who hate us can destruct us by cooking up stories or by spreading rumours by adding spices to it and that would ultimately make others hate us. But then, when we know that everything is a big lie, all we can do is to just ignore the false rumours. Having high self esteem could help u to deal with toxicity.
Allow yourself to live life with the fullest. Be always humble, kind and generous as u never know what a person is going through in his life. Never let hate to rule you. If a person is not talking to u due to some ego problem then u be a big person and take the first step before it gets too late.
Thus, never ever let hate to cloud your judgment as it tarnishes spirit, drains a soul and makes days darker. Instead of all this, let us spread more happiness and positivity.
This is my personal response to @galenkp's #weekend-engagement concept.
Disclaimer: All texts and photos are my own, unless otherwise stated.
