Well, I see a lot of you guys. You work out, you get tattoos, you get a beard, you know you go to one of these man camps once a year to teach you how to be a man, but yet when you stand up you cry and whine and complain about how hard the resistance is, you complain about how difficult it is to stand up for what's right, you complain about people calling you names, and most of you guys who complain about this are barely saying or standing for anything anyway, so what are you really doing?
Well, I'm going to tell you what you're really doing. You're losing the battle for your job. It's not to be soft, it's not to be weak, it's not to be vulnerable, it's not to cry and sing kumbaya in a man camp. It's to stand for what's right. It's to stand on your line and have a backbone. No matter what the resistance you might face is, it's to provide, it's to protect, it's to lead, it's to show the next generation what it means to be a functional, prosperous man in this world.
If you're one of these men who want to cry and complain and whine, get out of the game. Go sit on the sideline and let the real men handle what needs to be handled. The women are in the fight. The women are doing a good job. Most of your girlfriends, wives and significant others want you in the fight too, and they're ashamed of how weak you truly are. That's the truth. Being passive is not noble.
Men need to be the revolution here. Men need to understand that when I say personal excellence is the ultimate rebellion, you need to understand that personal excellence is your duty as a man.
People start to understand that it's not people with the voice that are going to change things, it's the people who actually deliver results and have their own ability to execute in the way they enforce their own standards upon themselves. These are the people who understand that when they do good, that creates a ripple effect and sets an example for the people not only in their household but their neighbours and their communities to rise up and be better humans.
I am sick of the weakness, I am sick of the complaining, I am sick of the whining, and so is everybody else. Do you want to take action? Start with yourself. Start by raising your standards. Start by taking care of your body, taking care of your mind, and taking care of your family.
The standard that you hold creates a ripple effect for all the people you come into contact with. This is everything. It's not specifically one thing. It's everything and for you women out there that hear this, you know how you can contribute to this?
You could contribute to this by letting men know what you expect, by letting men know what you want, and by letting men know that there is no attraction to weakness. Let them know.