#RememberSeptember: A Journey That Changed My Life

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September 21, 2023


We are bound to walk on different paths, stumble over stones and obstacles, get lost, discover new things, learn lessons, meet different people, and experience new life in a new place.

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It all started with a simple dream that I opted to pursue. And with that fearless step I took, the courage I pulled out, and my determination to achieve my dreams, I never thought I would get a better twist on life.

My dream was just simple. "To travel and change my life." Difficult life situations for us Filipinos fuel the desire to take a different path with the hope of seeing a better life ahead of the road we take. It can be risky, but as a person who has dreams and ambition, I took the courage to take the risks, and I hoped that my life would change after all the effort.

I may not be halfway there yet due to the different obstacles my life always throws at me, but somehow, my life has changed differently ever since I took that certain opportunity. Different lessons have been learned and new experiences have been acquired. But before I experienced a different life, I'd been through a lot of obstacles and pain.

It was February 2017 when I left home and embarked on a new journey to a faraway place, the capital city of our country, Manila. A solo journey wasn't easy, and because I was a country girl, it was tougher for me to live in a big city. There were a lot of what-ifs and fears. Knowing Manila from different stories, there were times that I felt unsafe and lost. But as they said, for as long as you are literate and have money, you'll be able to survive.

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With the limited budget I have, I searched for different agencies online, and traveled to different places in Metro Manila just to locate different agencies using Google Maps. I'm grateful for the convenience that technology has brought to this new era. Things become possible to acquire.

My goal was to find a job in Hong Kong for a simple reason: it's a stepping stone to Canada and European countries. And once I am in Canada or in other parts of Europe, I'll migrate and get my sister to work there too. How ambitious I was! But not all plans can materialize. Failures are inevitable.

February became March, then April and May. I was losing hope as well as money. There were times that I questioned myself, "Am I good enough?" Every time I failed to get a job, I doubted my capabilities, and my hope was slowly fading. I've been to different agencies, applied for work, and attended interviews. But I seldom got a call with job offers that were out of line. So I ended up rejecting job offers I didn't like. Sometimes, I would ask myself, "Maybe I can do another job that is beyond my experiences." Anything can be learned anyway. But I was picky when it came to this matter, as I didn't want to regret it in the future.

Oftentimes, I was pushing myself to the limit, which triggered my anxiety, especially since I was running out of money. I became depressed that I sometimes thought of ending my life. I didn't want to be a burden to my family. But God was on my side. Attempts failed.

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I pawned my gold jewelry just to make ends meet, and looked for part-time jobs, even just in small stores, malls, or supermarkets. I was desperate to find one. Unfortunately, I never got hired due to being overqualified. I couldn't just work for big companies or BPOs, as I needed to continue my application abroad.

When my father said, "Just go back home," my pride was hurt. And I told myself, "I don't want to go back home until I get a job." I didn't want to waste my effort, money, and time.

While walking along the street in Muntinlupa, I found a job hiring for the Comglasco head office. I was desperate to work, and two weeks later, I was in the Comglasco main office in Parañaque under training as a System Assistant - ICT Department. That was fast, and I liked my new office. However, after some time, I asked myself, "Are you sure you like working here?" I had pending applications for Hong Kong at that time, and I was worried that I might miss those if I worked longer at Comglasco. After a week of training, the day after I got my company ID, I informally resigned without informing my supervisor. It was an opportunity I wasted.

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The truth was, the salary was just the minimum, and quite small for an IT job. My salary for working as a private caregiver in my province was even higher. Moreover, I felt uncomfortable working in the middle of the big office, and beside me was my supervisor. I was just too introverted that time. So I quit and continued looking for agencies hiring jobs bound for Hong Kong. I was determined at that time, until a blessing came.

Later in May, I found a job posting for a private caregiver and tutor (which I liked) posted by an agent I followed on Facebook. I submitted my application, and a day later, I got a call, and I was qualified for the job. The interview came next, followed by the processing of papers. While in the process, I attended my NCII training in June, followed by Cantonese language training and examination. After a month of training, follow-ups for visa applications were made from late July to early August. They said that it would only take a month to process everything, so I waited.

After processing everything, my medical was the last step, but I haven't heard about my visa yet. I thought it wouldn't take long, so I didn't go back home, despite the fact that sooner or later I'd work abroad. That was because I was saving money, and I thought of going back home once I got my visa.

I waited since August, and one month has passed, but my visa hasn't been sent yet. Then September came, and I worried that I might just waste money, time, and effort. Moreover, I never thought it would take that long to wait, and the waiting time should have been an opportunity to visit home. But it didn't happen. Until my visa came unexpectedly. I have to submit my final medical result, as my ticket was already booked. I was uninformed and surprised.

A few days before my flight schedule, I went back home, and stayed there for only a few days just to get my things. I regretted a lot not coming home while waiting for my visa. That short amount of time wasn't enough to spend quality time with my family before I embarked on a new life journey in a foreign land. The separation the next day was the saddest part of my life.

And guess what? When I arrived in Manila, a typhoon came. So my flight to Hong Kong was postponed for a week. How funny it was. It should come a little sooner so I can stay in the province longer and spend more time with my family. I thought it was my sad fate, and I learned lessons from it.


"Life is a journey that has a lot of paths, but any path you choose, use it as your destiny."

- Anonymous


September 21, 2017 came, the day I was waiting! My heartbeat was racing so fast while onboarding due to excitement and fear. Excitement to see Hong Kong, and fear about living in a foreign land with new people and culture.

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While on the plane, I was trying my best to hide my emotions. It was overwhelming, a mixture of happiness and sadness. There were several what-ifs, worries, and doubts in my mind. I couldn't keep myself from thinking about possibilities and circumstances. Yet, I need to continue and look forward.

When I touched down in Hong Kong, the first thing that came to mind was the hilarious advice of my father, "Touch the ground and leak your finger." That was hilarious and disgusting. He said it would give me luck, but I didn't want to be humiliated, so I didn't do it, lol. Meanwhile, my mother told me to step my right foot first once I entered my new home. But I forgot about it, lol. I don't believe in luck anyway.

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Reaching six years and counting. I never thought that I could reach this far and stay here that long. I never thought I would immerse myself in this new environment and culture, and become part of it. Everything changed, not just my life but my plans as well. There isn't anything permanent in this world except change anyway.

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This may not be my ultimate dream, but my journey from the very beginning reminds me that once in my life, I stepped out farther from my comfort zone and learned to conquer the risks alone.

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The next chapter of my life is still uncertain and unpredictable. The next path is still unknown. But one certain thing is that, wherever I go, whichever path I take, it will be worth taking. I just need to think positively ☺️

So #RememberSeptember? That's when I courageously took a new journey. That's when my life changed.

I'm inviting my co-Filipinos, @ifarmgirl and @jenthoughts to share your memorable event in September for @hiveph Septemer Blogging Contest.

Thanks for your time.

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Its so amazing that you chose to inspire yourself to greatness.
Congratulations for taking this bold step.

You've come a long way in a short time and still have your whole life ahead of you! @jane1289

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Thank you..i'm looking forward to having more adventures in life ☺️

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I admire you. And I was delighted to learn this, you are an inspiration. 🙂🐣

Everyone has stories to tell that can inspire others.. For sure, you have one too ☺️

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Nakikita ko talaga yung kuya ko sayo Jane. Same kayo na goals and mindset. Kakauwi lang niya ngayong September. Shinare ng kuya ko kung pano siya nagtake risk and na-conquer yung fear niya. Ako na nakikinig sa kanya napapaisip "sana ganyan din ako balang araw, sana di ako talunin ng takot." Katulad din sayo, Saudi Arabia is also a stepping stone and his reason for going home is to compile his papers. He is planning to work in Europe but sa small country pa. He will try in Croatia or Poland. Sana swertehin siya pati ka Jane.

Thanks for sharing your life stories Jane, relatable siya sakin dahil sa kuya ko at the same time madami akong nalelearn sayo. Sobrang powerful ng mga blogs mo.

Single paba kuya ko? Haha..biro lang..

Poland sana next plan kasi madali lang.. Kaso daming sagabal...dunno after contract dto. Bahala na kung mapasaan man ako...basta walang susuko hehe

Actually binalikan niya yung long lost love niya sa pinas hahahah may anak na din kasi sila.

Madami bang opportunities sa Poland? Ikaw talaga idol ko Jane kaya single pa ako until now, gusto ko mag focus sa mga pangarap ko sa buhay. Wag ka talaga susuko Jane madami na kaming nainspire dahil sayo.

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Dream do come true! Sobrang tapang mo po at sobrang ina-admire ko yung ganong characteristic mo po mam kasi po kahit sobrang daming problema nalagpasan mo and here you are now 💛🥺

Salamuch !LADY
Not my ultimate dream, but a stepping stone... Hopefully makapunta ako sa ibang bansa, yung dream country ko talaga..

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Now ko lang nabasa ito, yong hardwork mo talaga and effort is worth it Kaya nakarating ka Ng Hong Kong.Kahit parang unknown pa ang future pero sa tapang mo na yang ,makakalampas at may ma achieve ka rin. I salute your bravery to take risk.

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The dream sounds simple but it's hard to do, as you said, because of many obtacles.
I hope you can make it soon.

A September to remember indeed. You are focus and determined Jane, you are one person I know that when they set goals will push through and get them. Well done to you for that, it is quite inspirational to many people!

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I commend your courage for taking such big leap and risk in your career. I wish I was as brave as you to venture on places and seek a greener pasture.🥰

In life struggle is not avoidable. We need to cross the bad times also and learn lesson from it. You never said about your struggles before or I didn't read. Reading the article I also learned some things and I believe that those things will help me in the upcoming days. You set an example not to lose hope till the end.
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life is a journey and I am so proud that you did that kabayan!as the saying goes:no pain,no gain!

Shees dami din pa lang pinagdaanan. Pag para sayo talaga para sayo <3

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Cheers to six years and counting sis! Malayo apa nag lalakbayin, malay mo, for Europe ka talaga. Bless you and y our family

I can't imagine myself staying in Manila para maghanap ng work. Pero may tita ako sa Pasig which nakapunta ako in 2012 and 2013 in Manila para mag vacay. Di ko pa na try mag work abroad pero if desperate needs i would try. Dati may ka workmate ako na guy kinoconvince nya kami na mag Taiwan para mag work as factory worker kasi nga mga dalaga pa naman kami that time. Yong 4 nag pursue sa Taiwan, di ako nag push. At yon lucky naman nakapag online job then nakapag travel na other countries after 3 years of savings. ANg tapang mo to pursue HK. Someday, Canada na yan. Go, go, go! No language barrier sa Canada, english lang.

Not sure bout Canada anymore.. It was my initial plan kaso mabuntis si kapatid ko, 🥲.. At dami pa prob sa family.. Masakit parents ko.. Need financial support.. Laking gastusin kpag ipursue ang Canada.. Hay buhay ..
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Laban lang talaga!

Your story is very inspiring. It takes courage to step away from your comfort zone to reach for your dreams. It is not knowing that can hold a person back from trying. I am so happy for you and I know that you will accomplish every dream you have.

Thank you .. I had a lot of things that were holding me back, until I opted to take the risk. It was worth it..
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Ikaw na talaga Ang Pinaka matapang na babae na nakilala ko sis @jane1289. Me? I really have a very low self esteem, parang di ko kaya Ang ganyan.

Sabi ko pa sa sariling ko, I won't go abroad to work, if mabubuhay lang Ako Ng simple Dito sa Pilipinas di talaga Ako lalayo sa pamilya ko. I don't know if that's my principle or just a reason because I'm afraid of something.

Congrats for taking that step sis.

Thanks din pala sa pag mention, Ang Dami nyu na nag mention sa akin pero kahit anong isipin ko Wala talaga akong maalala sa September ahhaha. My memories on Facebook only shows items na mga paninda ko sa online dati hahaha.

Once one becomes a mother, priorities and dreams change. That happened to you.. Nsa tapang ng loob lang pag abroad.. Ayan si Witty nga Japan,.. Dream country ko yan dati hndi ko naachieve , lack of financial support..🥲. If pumunta man ako Japan someday, bakasyon na lang yun hehe

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Sabagay Tama ka din sis, iba na din pananaw sa buhay naka focused na lang sa anak kapag Ina kana.

Pero buti responsible asawa mo.. Yung iba na walang trabaho asawa, no choice sla kundi mag abroad...

Sya Yung nagpupush talaga na di na Ako magwork at alagaan Ang anak namin kaysa iwanan sa iba kawawa Naman daw which is true Naman. Nag eenjoy din Naman Ako being with my son. Hatid sundo na kami ngayon kasi Kinder 2 na sya.

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