Real friends ...

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I love having friends with whom we can be ourselves, without masks and without fear of being judged. I love having friends like that and I value them very much.

There are friends who are really friends, because when you need them to be able to drain, that emotion that you have, that you feel inside, they are there to listen to you, they stop to be receptive to you, they get into your problem and make it a super pleasant and mutual conversation, they give their points of view, they also talk about their problems and it may be that you have months without talking to them, but when you do, it's as if you had seen them or if you had talked to them yesterday.

They are real friends who know us very well and best of all they know very well that they love you and that we also reciprocate them with the same love, respect and consideration.

I had the pending task since last year, to give myself to a new version of myself and I have achieved it with my friend Nadeska, a nurturing and inspiring woman whom I value and recognize in her her temperance, creativity and resilience. We have shared time and chatted in real life.

Friends are definitely one of those good things that life has.

To the extent that we personally give or send a message of encouragement to a true friend who needs it, we are providing support, and to that same extent we also feel better. Why?
Because every time we help a friend in some way we are helping ourselves. And if we love that person, love them or have a relationship or a bond, then the feeling is much greater.

Because there is nothing more pleasant, satisfying than being able to give support and who, in turn, needs it.

Consequently, I am never afraid to send messages, affection, support or structure to the people I love, because to the same extent I am also filling myself with strength, motivation and self-esteem and the feeling of being the best possible version of oneself.
It is to be a vitamin in someone's life, a vitamin that gives back. The reciprocity between true friends makes us feel better and make everyday life more bearable.

Being together is always a recharge of energy, a caress.

There is always someone who comes up in our life to accompany us when we feel more lost, my friend Nadeska is one of those friends who has an enthusiasm that is contagious and helps me grow and discover my inner drive, that one that helps me to rise to another level to face a challenge, a challenge.

I wish that my friendship will last forever.

Quality friends exist no matter what, they are there and they make you feel that life is worth it. I take great care of these friends.

Janitze 🌹



Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva


Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia


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