The economic stress ...

It affects love and it is not an easy thing especially when cohabitation begins, u is part of life and, making existence invisible and then the guilt begins, for example: "that you haven't done this" or because you are so calm or calm and you don't go out looking for money?.

And in fact there are couples who love each other, love even, but when the money is missing they start to separate. It seems a lie but economic stress has only one element "they blame each other", and many times they are branded as maintained.

It is a crucial issue, the important thing is always to find solutions together, without forgetting all the commitment that unites them, so that slow money is not the one that separates them.

And it also happens and it's the other side of the coin, that they both have so much money, they're both successful, and they get into some competitions with each other, that they forget about love too.

Even in my environment I know couples who do not love each other and for the economic part they are still together. I think that all support between couples is achieved so that the burden (income vs expenses) in everyday life is lighter.

It happens also, in couples with different cultures and ideals about the economic responsibilities of each (the man pays everything VS everything should be between the couple 50%-5O%). And with this behavior, so much stress is generated between the couple that it is difficult to see a near future.

I also think that many times love is stronger, but without a doubt money influences more than we think because we also associate it even out of the respect we may have for the couple.

I always say that love alone is not enough, it is not enough to maintain a relationship, and it is totally proven.

Economic problems are not the only conflicts, people's existential disagreements, lack of understanding, incompatibility of characters, infidelity, jealousy, and even, something very common and that costs a lot to accept, that love is over.

So, in the face of economic stress, it is necessary to take measures as a couple.

It is definitely necessary to establish the commitment of money between the couple, it is essential to manage each other's personal finances and together (together) always talk and take action, about it.

Sometimes we look and look for how to solve the economy but we have a stress with very high peaks. And from stress to anger and frustration there are few steps. That's where the problems come from.

Solution? Do not forget the love that unites us and look for alternatives to lower the level of stress if necessary. The important thing is to get ahead together!

Janitze 🌹