Expanding My Circle: A New Friend, A New Beginning

in #hive-1080452 months ago

Hello to my hive family. I hope you are all doing well. I am also doing pretty well. Today I am going to talk about friendship. Choosing quality friends in life is a good thing. It is my hobby to add good people to my life. I prefer quality over quantity. I try to pick sincere, cooperative, and intelligent friends. Although these three qualities are very rare in people nowadays. But still, I managed to find one or two people in a year.

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Today is a special day for me because I am glad to share that I found another person whose chemistry matches with me. His thoughts, his way of thinking, his emotions, and his approach toward life are quite similar to mine. His name is Ahmad Sameer. His age is about 25 years old. He is very young, but his mental age is much more than his physical age. I had a deep conversation with him. He is very kind and intelligent.

During my conversation with him, I learned a lot from him. Although he is younger than me. But I do not waste any opportunity of learning. He is very clear in his thoughts. We talked about which are the big decisions of life. My point of view was that choosing a life partner and choosing a profession are the two big decisions of life. We should be very cautious while making these two big decisions. Because we spend our maximum time with our wives or at our workplace. So we should be wise while making these big decisions.

Another aspect that we discussed is that we should not care about people. If we like to do something and we are not doing it because of people, we are doing foolish things. Here I try to explain this point with an example. If you want to cycle but you are afraid of people. Do not care about your status all the time. Do what you want. Do not always try to happy others. They will never be happy.

The other thing that came into our discussion is that we should try to learn the art of how to say no. If you are a yes man your life is ruined. You cannot live a happy life. People will misuse you. Your personal life will be ruined. Try to say no to what you do not like. Be the driver of your life. Do not allow anyone to drive your life.

At last, I would like to say it was a memorable day in my life. Because a kind, humble, intelligent, cooperative, and hard-working person added to my life. Try to add quality people to your life. Try to make friends with those who are your companions in your bad times. Do not be happy about making several friends. Do not compromise on quality while making friends.

I hope you will enjoy my today's post. Thank you so much for stopping. Have a great weekend. By till the next post. Allah Hafiz.

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