It is always painful to leave the warmth of your home behind; however, for many of us in an African country – Nigeria in particular – moving to another country is always an indication of a better and brighter tomorrow. So here it is – the economy doesn't provide much hope. Employment opportunities are limited today, and the problem affects even those of us who hold university degrees. Inflation scenarios remain on the high side, while wages continue to stagnate.
Conflict and insecurity remain rampant in too many places, and human rights remain violated in too many forms. In simple terms, one is doomed, the other is a death sentence, and the third is a grim future.
Hence, there are prospects of life in foreign countries, but at the same time, a part of us is aware that it is not going to be easy to begin all over again. Often we dream of being able to make a decent living, get an education for ourselves and our children, and to be able to build a safe life.
I remember when my church's choir coordinator, who is also a keyboardist, relocated to the UK with his family about two years ago, and to this day, he has always referred to it as one of the best decisions he has ever made for himself and his family. When I initially learned that they would be relocating, it was a bittersweet feeling. I was happy about that but sad that their physical presence would be greatly missed.
Of course, I know that adapting would not occur instantly even if I were the one to get the chance to travel abroad. Other immigrant friends, however, recount to me that the early days of learning a new language, adapting to a new culture, and fighting homesickness are not easy at all.
The idea of immigrating to another country is something that is thrilling as well as frightening to me in some way, as I have always wanted to try out a new culture and lifestyle. I attempt to have various outlooks concerning different people or places. On the same note, the concept of leaving my own home, loved ones, friends, and everything that is familiar and comfortable is quite unnerving.
But of course, I have my reasons for being willing to take this big step. I crave more advancement both in my personal and career paths than what the present setting can offer me. I have dreamt of having a better life not only for myself but for the future generations I intend to have. These problems in my home country such as political instability, violence, lack of jobs, etc., are also some of the reasons why I need to live in a stable country.
I understand that I might end up having to rebuild my life from the ground up – get housing, employment, friends, and family. The reality of having to toil and endure the loss of comforts for a better life ahead is something I am willing to embrace.
It may be uncertain, and it is apparent that it may be filled with a lot of emotional roller coasters. So, I want to meet this new stage of life with courage, flexibility, and positive thinking. It is an opportunity for change, to pursue personal development, as well as strive for the achievement of my aims and goals. I think I can build myself up in my new place gradually with some encouragement and direction.
I know that where there is a desire or intention to do something, there is always the means or ability to do it. A whole new world of possibilities is all set for you!
Posted Using InLeo Alpha
