Como ustedes saben soy una mujer mexicana trabajadora, que he encontrado una forma de libre expresión a través de esta plataforma, tengo cuarenta y tantos años encima y voy a hablar de lo difícil que es trabajar con mujeres y podría sonar raro ya que soy mujer.
Se que son sentimientos encontrados, les hablaré a través de mi experiencia, a los 20 años comencé mi vida laboral, esos inicios fueron en una constructora y no habían mujeres, era la única y debo decir que los compañeros me respetaban y estimaban, nunca tuve ningún inconveniente, al cambiarme de trabajo a otra constructora mas grande, el problema fueron las mujeres que a toda costa trataron de menospreciar mi trabajo, que era igual de importante que el de ellas, el maltrato llegó a límites inaceptables por lo que tuve que renunciar ya que era desgastante y comenzaba a caer en depresión, ahí me di cuenta que cuando nos lo proponemos podemos ser las personas más feas del mundo.
Hello everyone today I'm not talking about music or movies or series, today I decided to make a reflection that I know that not many will give me the reason, it is more think that I speak from the machismo that instill some women, but I feel it has to be said and sorry if someone offend, it is a simple personal point of view.
As you know I am a working Mexican woman, who has found a way of free expression through this platform, I am in my forties and I am going to talk about how difficult it is to work with women and it might sound strange since I am a woman.
I know I have mixed feelings, I will talk to you through my experience, when I was 20 years old I started my working life, those beginnings were in a construction company and there were no women, I was the only one and I must say that my colleagues respected and esteemed me, I never had any inconvenience, when I changed jobs to another bigger construction company, the problem was the women that in all my work I had to deal with, the problem was the women that in all my work I had to deal with, The problem was the women who at all costs tried to belittle my work, which was just as important as theirs, the mistreatment reached unacceptable limits so I had to resign because it was exhausting and I began to fall into depression, there I realized that when we propose we can be the ugliest people in the world.
Actualmente laboro en un hospital ya que ahora soy enfermera, mi trabajo y esfuerzo me costó, por lo menos así lo siento, y pues ahora trabajo con más mujeres, no puedo decir que sea desagradable, por qué no es así, pero es un hecho que siempre hay una rivalidad, siempre es el hecho de tratar de ser mejor que la compañera, o ser más bonita o demostrar que sabes más, mencionando algunos ejemplos. No digo que todas sean así, pero quien no ha vivido situaciones similares que te han hecho pensar en eso.
Entre mujeres no siempre hay empatía, si no te cae bien la compañera, la tratas mal, si piensas que goza de algún tipo de preferencia la tratas mal, si es estudiante la tratas mal, y así podría seguir por un buen rato.
Lo he visto y lo he vivido, es triste aceptar que en algunos casos el enemigo de una mujer es una mujer, pero es parte de una cultura que se debe erradicar porque, que mejor que ser empáticas, ser sororas, y ayudarse las unas a las otras no solo en el aspecto laboral.
Espero les haya gustado esta publicación, nos vemos hasta la próxima, saludos.
Portada realizada en canva con imagen propia, traducido con DeepL translate.
Currently I work in a hospital since I am now a nurse, my work and effort cost me, at least that's how I feel, and now I work with more women, I can not say that it is unpleasant, because it is not so, but it is a fact that there is always a rivalry, it is always the fact of trying to be better than the partner, or be prettier or show that you know more by mentioning more examples. I am not saying that they are all like that, but who has not lived similar situations that have made you think about that.
Among women there is not always empathy, if you don't like the partner, you treat her badly, if you think she enjoys some kind of preference you treat her badly, if she is a student you treat her badly, and I could go on for a long time.
I have seen it and I have lived it, it is sad to accept that in some cases the enemy of a woman is a woman, but it is part of a culture that must be eradicated because, what better than to be empathetic, to be sororas, and help each other not only in the work aspect.
I hope you liked this publication, see you next time, greetings.
Cover made in canva with my own image, translated with DeepL translate.
