Whose fault is it?

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We all know our is the reflection of their parents. They are what that we show them. They pick every single thing from us. They learn from us. They grow while watching us. They are our copy. They perform every action that we did infront of us. Somewhere we are an inspiration for them. For exampla, when a baby born. He has no idea what to speak, hoe to speak? He clearly dont know how to pronounce a word. When he statrs growing his mind starts developing those qualities of speaking. Then he tried to learn. We also made effort for them. " kid say maaa, maaa" this how you'll call me say "maa, maa". When he notice the movement of our lips and hear the words. His mind click everything. One day he starts saying maa. On the other week he'll able to call mama properly. This is how we treat our kids. Days passes and he start speaking. The word mama is now his morning's first word. What does that mean. This is the parents role in growing him. This is the parents role to make him fluent in speaking. This is the parents role to give him manners.

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What if he misbehaves?whose fault is it? We all went through the growing phase. Some are growing and some are grown up. We all know while this phase we have to go through so many things. This only depend on us. Its all not upon us. Parents should tell us what is wrong and what is right. This is not the child's fault. This is parents fault who never told them to not to misbehave. Since childhood the parents are our teacher. They correct our mistakes. They tell us this way is full of complication so do this not that. They have to teach us how to behave. They tell us how make the things right while living in your own limits. Although you are kid but you can speak for yourself but in a good way. You can speak for yourself whule staying in your own limits.

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Also this is not the parents fault. This is also the fault of that child. He should know how to behave. Isn't hus parents are paying for his school. Where their parents want him to learn manners. That child have two choices to make the way clear and to make the way dirty. If he is misbehaving with someone he is making his way dirty. He is making his reputation blur infront of others. His image is getting affected because of misbehave. So he is also criminal for his own self. Because he also has an idea about wring and right. Now both of them need to focus on that point where we arw wrong, where we did wrong. They have tk imrpove theirslef. If my kid will do this misbehavoir i will teach him in good way and tell him that doing that stuff will hurt your image. This only affect you.

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Everyone has their part to play in a child development. But the huge role lies on the parents, once they have don their part it now left to the child to choose right from wrong

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