Day by day I am reaching an age when I can say something to someone and add "I have learned this from my own life". That is called giving advice...
The first thing I realized is, end of the day, only your family matters. See, even if you don't do anything for them, they will surround you at every step. You will not allow these people to come.They will express twice as much excitement than you at your smallest achievements. It is not only a must, but a must for you to take care of these people.
The next step is the position of another group of people in your life. This second category of people are also very close to you, they always want your best. They can be your peers, older or younger.In a word, they are "dear people" even if they are not related by blood, they will definitely have a soul relationship with them. Even if you don't put effort behind these people, but their love will force you to give effort!
Last but not least, overthinking and worrying about what to do or not do in the future ultimately serve no purpose. Just go with the flow. Life should definitely have goals, and one should work hard and pray for them. However, stressing over them and exhausting your brain cells is pointless. Life is all about moving forward while trusting the Creator and enjoying the little things along the way.
Enjoy the little things. Taking some time for yourself in the morning and truly savoring it makes you realize—they aren’t little at all. When feeling down, dressing up for yourself, making a cup of tea just for you, or going on a solo walk—these aren’t luxuries; they are basic human needs. Always prioritize yourself. Also, try to incorporate good habits into your life, one by one. Even if it doesn’t make you a great person, it can definitely help you become a kind-hearted one.