The Alchemy of Dreems

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One piece after the other, I have been picking up bits of life - physical, mental, emotional and spiritual - and trying to find a pattern that would work well for me. It has not been an easy process to say.

Alchemy of Dreems - a form of living concerned with the discovery of methods for transmuting dreems of little values into one dreem of greater value.
~ a dreemy source

My last piece of post had me mention my dreem of being a sociable person. Its one thing to think you are good but that does prove to be useless if people know less of you. Looking at the circle of friends I have got, it is hard to find just one where I made the first approach. This caused a lot of limitations which I regret at times. Changing the way things are at a go would likely cause disarray, so fixing and mixing little bits of progress is the safest way to go.

The big dreem of socializing can be subdreemified into smaller dreems such as starting up a conversation, being a good listener, participating in events, making new acquaintances, being able to compliment others, learning to manage rejections, feeling more comfortable with myself and lots more. A good chunk of those smaller dreems are a continuous process and not just a one-time success.

The transmutation would require few tools, three of which are discussed below:


Interaction

Opportunities do not get minted from thin air. Being in a good position or chance for advancement is directly proportional to the level of interaction one has. I really do hope to go places, so, it is probably best to utilize this tool more.

Consistency

Inconsistency and I have been best friends for quite a while. Along the path of wanting a new experience, the old process is discarded and I usually have to start a new one afresh. It is enjoyable but often times yield nothing to take home.

Self-care

I am human, one with a body and soul. In the pursuit of dreems, the body ends up tired and unwilling to continue. Taking care of one self is a core requirement many people overlook. Dreems can only be realized if you are well and hearty.


Utilizing these tools in achieving positive progress physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually is my alchemy.
To end on this note:

Try not becoming that which you are not, become the best of who you already are.


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Nice post. Self-care is really important, but people don't know. Most people neglect it.
Hope you get your dreem space

Thanks for the comment. Working towards that, i do hope you find yours as well.

With these tools, I can see you accomplishing your dreams...

#dreemerforlife

The smaller dreems you've outlined mirror the shared aspirations many of us harbor. Your insights on interaction, consistency, and self-care serve as valuable tools for this transformative process.

dreemerforlife

This caused a lot of limitations which I regret at times.

Don't be too hard on yourself. It's good to know you want to connect and interact more with people and we are all here.

Dreemport is a space that I love so much as it brings us all together as a family and we will keep creating more and lasting bonds with others.

!luv

Learnt to always take things easy. Thanks for the encouragement.
😌, I am definitely not alone.
Way to go, dreemer 👍💯

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