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The concept of "tough love" inspires many opinions. Do you think that this way of helping people is useful or harmful? Have you had the experience of giving it away and/or receiving it?
Talking about love in these times is extremely important, because the concept of love has evolved from my perception.
Remember the love of parents, as a child when they educated us, their love was not demonstrated with gestures, hugs, sweet words when they addressed us, of course they loved us, I understand that since many years ago, accepting that they had their history and their beliefs on how to educate us, maybe they thought that if they spoke nicely to us they would stop respecting them.
Those beliefs made them feel hard when they wanted to correct us in something or wanted to show us something so that we would improve, sometimes it was fear when we listened to them or when they told us something...I can consider that as tough love...my parents in front of the education of those times.
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Looking at it as helpful or harmful is a matter of perception after we are adults, become mothers or come to have our own convictions about love...after healing many beliefs, having studied a lot about emotions, remembering them as tough love parents was their right because that was their way of feeling according to the homes they were raised in.
It can be considered useful after realizing what we learned from that upbringing and that with time we have understood it, although many adults today feel that their parents did not love them or did not want the best for them, they forget that theory that they gave their best, from there I say it was useful.
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With the passing of the years I can say that love is the most powerful energy that can be manifested being the one that provokes reactions in others. Also, those sympathetic looks in uncomfortable situations that we as parents have to go through. This takes a lot of coexistence, tolerance, understanding?
That useful or harmful love cannot be measured by us when we are parents, our children will be the ones who will give it the concept as I do at this moment about my parents...they are the ones who decide to see it as useful or harmful according to their experiences and according to how they manage their lives focused on the concept of love that they have built for themselves.
The experience of sharing it I recognize myself as a person who has a lot of love inside and my thoughts of love I generate them even towards those people who I consider do not have good energy or good vibes as we call them now.
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El concepto de "amor duro" inspira muchas opiniones. ¿Crees que esta forma de ayudar a la gente es útil o perjudicial? ¿Has tenido la experiencia de repartirlo y/o recibirlo? .
Hablar del amor en estos tiempos es sumamente importante, porque el concepto hacia el ha evolucionado desde mi percepción.
Recordar el amor de padres, de niña cuando nos educaron, su amor no era demostrado con gestos, abrazos, palabras dulces al dirigirse a nosotros, por supuesto que nos amaban lo comprendo desde hace muchos años hacia acá, al aceptar que ellos tuvieron su historia y sus creencias de como educarnos, quizás pensaban que si nos hablaban bonito iban a dejarlos de respetar.
Esas creencias los hacían sentir duros cuando nos querían corregir en algo o querían manifestar algo para que mejoráramos, a veces era miedo cuando los escuchábamos o cuando nos decían algo...eso puedo considerarlo como amor duro...mi padres frente a la educación de esos tiempos.
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Mirarlo útil o perjudicial es cuestión de percepción después que estamos adultos, nos convertimos en madres o llegamos a tener nuestras propias convicciones acerca del amor...después de sanar muchas creencias, haber estudiado mucho acerca de emociones, recordarlos como padres de amor duro estaban en su derecho porque esa era su forma de sentir de acuerdo a los hogares en que fueron educados.
Puede considerarse útil después de darnos cuenta lo que aprendimos de esa educación y que con el tiempo lo hemos comprendido, aunque muchos adultos hoy día sienten que sus padres no les amaban o no querían lo mejor para ellos, se olvida esa teoría que ellos dieron lo mejor de si, desde allí digo que fue útil.
Con el transcurrir de los años puedo decir que el amor es la energía mas potente que se puede manifestar siendo esta la que provoca reacciones en otros. Además, esas miradas comprensivas ante situaciones incómodas que como padres tenemos que atravesar. Esto lleva mucho de convivencia, tolerancia, comprensión...
Ese amor útil o perjudicial no podemos medirlo nosotros cuando somos padres, nuestros hijos van a ser quienes le den el concepto así como en estos momentos lo hago acerca de mis padres...ellos son quienes deciden verlo como útil o perjudicial de acuerdo a sus vivencias y de acuerdo a como gerencian sus vidas enfocados al concepto de amor que se han construido.
La experiencia de repartirlo me reconozco como una persona que hay mucho amor dentro de si y mis pensamientos de amor los genero hasta hacia aquellas personas que considero no tienen buena energía o buena vibra como les decimos ahora.
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