Love ,respect and take care of your parents while they are still in your side
Hello hivers and hello world!!!
Whats up mga kababayan ?
I hope everyone is doing great today.
For todays blog ,I will share to you our way of paying back our parents sacrifices.
Last week my in-laws was sick ,first my mother in-law was having a fever and cough and we take her to a doctor and after a day tatay(my father in-law)was having a fever and we gave him a paracetamol but last friday ,he found difficult in breathing and we are worried for him.
We are so worried for his health ,my two sister in-law who are in hongkong now was facing a financial crisis since they had a college student.
Good thing that it was my husband salary so we consulted him to a doctor but the doctor advices him to confined at the hospital but tatay don't like to be confined and stay at the hospital.
Even if how much we convinced him but he stand his descision ,he does'nt want to confined for many reason.
We are afraid what might happened to him so we did'nt force him ,so we take care of him at home.
Anyway last August 17 he was celebrating his 82nd birthday and his two daughters and one grandson spent money for that celebration.Since I don't have money ,all I can give is my effort.
Effort for cooking and preparing for his birthday.
Back to his illness ,since my husband was at work Iam the one who take his responsiblity as a child of his father,I taking care of him like my real father.
No matter what kind of parent we had ,nangingibabaw talaga ang pagmamahal natin for them as our family.
I prepared his meal ,pero mas prefered niya yung lugaw ,no matter how busy I am since I had two kids plus my unlimited house chores ,I need to take good care of him.
Every morning I cleaned his room after I gave his breakfast.So this morning I gave him an oatmeal and banana.
But before he will take his meal ,I gave him a barley juice actually my sister in-laws husband was recomend this food supplement and we tried to gave it to him even if its expensive.One box of barley with 15sachets worth 1500pesos.
My sister in-law asked me also to buy milk for tatay and we choose ensure milk for him kasi mas maganda to sa matatanda.
My one brother in-law is the one who cleaned tatay and massage him.
I am happy to see that tatay is now feel better ,his not find difficult in breathing anymore and kumakain na siya.
He does'nt want to lay down on the bed ,he only want to sleep at the floor but we make sure thatt he won't feel cold.
And this morning he went outside for a while after 3 days of lying always.He loss weight honestly but whats important is he feel better now.
My brother in-law ,tatay's 3rd from the eldest son sacrifices to take care of tatay ,he even does'nt have enough sleep because his watching tatay all the time.I can gave my effort of preparing his meal and taking care of him.And his two daughter are the one who shoulder his financial needs.
He may not be a perfect father to them but they know what sacrifices he made back then ,giving his needs ,taking care of him and makes him happy is our way of paying back his sacrifices to them.