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In this world that we're living in, there have been countless heart breaks with broken relationships and broken marriages and today we are going to look into one of the major reasons why this happens. Think about the first time you saw someone you really loved, the feeling and sensations you got.
Think about the first moment when you locked eyes with him or her, what you felt.
Many relationships started in such a beautiful way and some you could wonder if everything was magical. Gosh! Only if people knew how to maintain good relationships the world today would be in a lesser mess than it is already.
Good relationship brings healing to the soul, it's like a good ointment even one who is sick and lying on the hospital bed can live a little longer if by chance they got to see one whom they've so much got connected with.
Without love there will be nothing like a good relationship, love is the masterpiece in having and maintaining a good relationship. Our emotions have a lot to play in the most crucial moments. Love is more complicated, can we think or desire? Love is more sophisticated than the technology we see today because you cannot move a muscle to do anything that will better live technology wise if you don't love. Remember I said love is complicated to some people, There are also those who love evil and destroying lives and properties. You can hardly move a muscle to do something you don't love to do unless you're forced or maybe at gunpoint yet some choose to die instead of doing something against what they love.
Learning to Maintain good morals has helped humans over the years to channel their love on right things which will help build a more healthy society.
For instance, we have more lovers of nature back in the days than we have presently. Many good men and women will be very willing to protect their small gardens, their farmlands or any natural thing within their care which they consider valuable but today, places for garden are converted to something else, trees that provides us with oxygen are cut down massively and we replace our farmlands with buildings as we humans increasing continue to erect structures. This also clearly shows that as time passes by there will be a continuous shift on the type of things people place their love on if there are not morally guided.
Once Upon a time humans have witnessed great revival world wide and many confessed their love for God and enjoyed the liberty of living a life like christ but what is going on today?
In most countries where the move of God was once strongly felt like no other, churches are now being demolished and many are being converted to museums. Does that show us anything?
To me this clearly shows love can be transferable or shifted from one thing to another or maybe from one person to another. Just like a story, once upon a time there was a phone brand called IPhone 6 and many people loved its operating system and camera and wanted to own it. Some even went ahead to phone snatchers and thieves and some kill people just to have it. Let's not also forget the fact that there are those who must have done some rituals in order to be among those who used iPhone 6 as it was once a big name. Now what model or version of iPhone do we have in the marketplace right now as the latest and yet you still see people repeating the process and their love has been shifted from the iPhone 6 to the latest brand.
This clearly shows that human beings deeply crave for novelty and they love to follow the trend. The issue of the iPhone was just for instance, what about cars and now what about our fellow humans?
We also notice this shift in love towards our parents and towards our siblings but though it doesn't always last long though some do but I feel it's simply because the bond of blood is very strong and unique. Also coupled with the fact that parents and siblings have been with us for a long time though not all the time but this set of people have lived in our heart rent free for many years.
Now what about relationships and marriages? When it comes to relationships and marriages we know deep down that most of our partners are not related to us by blood and another thing is that their way of life is a new thing to us, not what we are used to and also in relationships most partners try as much as possible to live in pretense and cover their bad side as good as they can and once in marriage a man or a woman may start seeing even more alarming behaviors that he had never imagined.
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In relationships also, men and women alike try to invent new things or try to come up with novel experiences for our partners to see and fall in love with and also to keep the fire burning. Also coming up with something new could be in form of fashion and styling, new ways of expression, hubby etc
Some don't put in that energy and feel relaxed and comfortable. There are many people who got attracted to others because of one unique thing that they are known for or something that they normally do or say but along they line traces of that faded away from them and the thrill was gone.
There are also some who found out there is someone else who is more fun and entertaining to be with in a relationship and from there their attention and love was shifted.
Almost everyone on planet earth has once in while or twice or even more experienced a heart break, sometimes not because we are at fault but because the one once loved us chooses to love someone else but no matter what, whosoever that loves you genuinely will definitely come back for you and in most cases, they will never let you be alone without them.
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