We live in a world where what you get judged for every single thing you do. If you are good, nice and kind, they will call you week, soft and fragile and they will not fail to use every opportunity to milk you until you get dried.
If you prove to be strong, tough and show little or no emotions, they will say that you are heartless, and you lack humanity.
If you try to be a little kind and a little tough, people will focus more on your tough side, and spread many negative things about you. At this juncture, where what to do does not matter, as the people will always want to tal about you. It breaks my heart to see that people will never mind their business and do what concerns them.
In a world full of people that can not wait to judge you, you just have to do what makes you happy. So long as you are not hurting nobody, all you've gotta do is be happy and let the judge.