Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog. Every individual out there has a limit; there is a limit to what each and every one of us can tolerate. We have people who are short tempered and can easily lose it, and we have people who can keep enduring and enduring until they no longer can before they lose it. We all fall into one of these categories: either we are short tempered or one of those that can endure for some time before we lose it. Losing your temper is not always good; some people manage to put their temper under control even after losing, and we have some who, once it is lost, there is no turning back from it.
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For me, I hate to be in harm's way, so whoever cannot control their temper once lost I try to avoid. Some people put themselves in harm's way and call it a relationship. I know of a couple that live just blocks away; they are not married but living together. Whenever these two people lose their temper, they must spill each other's blood. Either the girl uses a sharp object on the guy or he does; what we know is two days later you will definitely see bandages on them and they still live together. Losing your temper to the point of harming a person is one thing I don't ever see myself doing. Instead, when pushed beyond limit, I can lose it to some point and then put myself back together which is how it is supposed to be.
Sometimes anger can make us do things we will live the rest of our lives regretting. This is why I try as much as I can to avoid people who push those buttons as well as situations that push these buttons too. Anger is no good thing; an angry person takes action without thinking. My dad would say anger is like alcohol; whatever you do when you are angry, you will pay the price when you calm down. Which is why I had to learn to tolerate and try as much as I can not to be the type that gets angry easily. Sometimes people want to take advantage since you just keep tolerating, but once in a while I let them know I just keep calm and not because I cannot react.
I do everything I can to avoid people with anger issues, anything that will make a person threaten to stab me or tell me something like if I lose my temper you will not know me again, bro, are you Naruto 😂? One tip I can give those with anger issues is to try meditation. Also whenever one with anger issues feel angry they should try not to react, instead leave the person or environment that is making you angry.
