How do people see you? How do you wish people saw you? By @merit.ahama
It took me back to that incident and the first thing that came to my mind was "did that boy actually see me as a small girl" 😂 come-on! I hope you are not thinking the same thing because I ain't small, lol!
Truth is, we have different people and we have meet different people as well and each one of them has their own different perspectives about us. And it's fine because even we have our own different perspectives on the people we meet in our daily lives but believe it or not, we can only see the real in a person when we draw near to them...
Oh my God!! I think I am talking off the stage and you...you...I mean you would have called my attention back...
Back to how people see me
Well, To most People, they see me as that ignorant and innocent girl who doesn't know anything, probably because I appear to be quiet. And because of my quietness, most people see me as someone they can gamble with. Hehe! (They have no idea that the quiet ones are the most dangerous ones) Sorry, I hope you didn't hear that
To few people, especially back then in college, they saw me as someone who had pride because I hardly talk especially if I don't know you. Hey! don't get me wrong, we could engage in a conversation but if you are not open to me then hello...I won't be open to you. "But hold on, I don't have pride, I am just being careful because people are not to be trusted.
To my friends, they see me as someone who is intelligent especially when it comes to matters concerning the online space. They feel I know a lot but believe me, what I don't know is more than what I know, I am still learning.
Some People see me as someone who has money, they feel I am closing international gigs, they see me as that one gurl that has cashed out. I remember having a chats with my fellow girls who are into Virtual assistant and Social Media Management with me, we were all discussing on how tough it is to get clients and to my surprised, they asked me not to join them to complain😂 because they believe I am doing well in the industry. But how? I asked myself and sincerely this got me confused because heaven and earth knows I haven't made it😂
....How do you wish people saw you?
I wish people saw me as someone who doesn't have pride. Why will I even have pride when I don't have money😂
I know this might sound odd but I wish people saw me as someone who doesn't have money because this has made so many people to be angry with me just because I couldn't meet up with their request. I wish they see me as someone who is just coming up and understand that I will soon be there...
I wish people especially the under 20 gang, I wish they see me as someone who is more than just a babe 😂 I am people's mother fa!!
I hope you enjoyed reading through
All images are mine!!!
