How best is it to seek perfection in a relationship ?

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When we determine perfection, we want things to go the way we want for us, but the deal is, something's we want may not be the exactly as another person, pertaining to lifestyle, recipes and fashions.

Moreover, they are people who wants a lousy lifestyle and on every activities they do, they want lt to be heard here and there, which i believed some are there that do not fancy lt too.

Therefore, for a person who do not treasure this lifestyle, he/she who act it will not be a perfect person.

But come to reason on lt. Do we really have a person who ls perfect? as long as I know we have things we do which may not really be what we want, but we finds ourselves there, because lt seems the energy we got was about to drain us.

Speaking of myself, l remember having that thought when l was still a teenager, i believed in such a thing as perfection, but to be frank, right now I do not really know what l should believe in anymore, because lt seems, keeping this view to myself will make me to still have lt wrong.

And if it was now l do not think i will have let that vibes of wanting perfection to affect my relationship with someone l get the smiles with, because as far as I know there must be some differences in the life of people we know, the same way there will also be some likeness in the life's of people who has really known their self for a longer time.

Therefore, speaking more of this, lt will be very wrong to look for perfection in a relationship, and lf you have ever make this mistake, l am here to tell you that you are not alone, i did it too, and the best thing to know is to understand that lt doesn't make sense a bit, because as far as it's love, i believed perfection should be out of lt.

At any point we look for it in a relationship just consider that you are looking for an empty world, because lf we love, we built that perfect world with that person.

The deal is, the person might be keeping that habit we think do not make them perfect for us because of the environment he/she finds theirself in, and change is what would happen when he/she do not live in that environment anymore.

l wish someone told me more on what to find out ln a relationship should not be perfection but above love, understand, trust, confidence, i should not have make some silly mistakes in the past that i have fallen ln already, but what more right now than being happy for knowing how to keep who/what i treasure.

What about you, do you think it's best to seek perfection and cut off your relationship? Or are you considering a thing like that In your current or future relationship?

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