l have met a lot of people who keep telling me that we should not expect back the things we do for people, which i believed they are right but to some extent. The deal is, they are people that when we do something for them, especially if it was a good thing that we did for them, they will never stop to pay us back, either in a more bigger way or just the same way we did for them.
l understand that a lot of things are happening in the world nowadays and that makes people at times not to believe in one another, even while they are still many lovely people, but it became clearer to us when we are close to person's like that, and it will be very hard for us to let go of them because he/she has clear out doubt.
l have watched it in a comedy when a guy went to a woman who was selling stuff on the road side, even as the rain was drizzling, he asked the woman to please give her some of her maize that she was selling, the first person he asked turned him down and did not give, he went many places and lt was still the same, but this particular seller that was selling maize gave him three maize to eat.
He was happy and was thanking her, later on, he gave her some money, he did that because, of all the people he met, she was the one who have human sympathy and not minding the bad event that people used help to do, that makes him gave her some money and also promise to get a shop around that area for her, so that she will not be selling again on the road side.
The woman was happy because lt was something she did not expect, maybe, she had been doing that same thing with a lot of people ln the past, but that day, lt was her lucky day and that her good lifestyle saved her a thousand times.
This does not mean we should do something to people and expect a kind of reward, yet, every good deeds do not get lost in the surface of the planet, either we believe if we do good thing, we are not going to get rewarded, lt might take a little longer, but nothing good that we do that get lost.
lt follows us and when we need it the most, those good handwork of us would begin to come and bless our life.
There was a day my friend told me that he has been trouble of something, and he can't kept lt any longer to himself, so l asked him "what is going on with him" he told me that he raised his voice on his girlfriend, and she doesn't deserve that.
l asked him if he felt relief now that he has told me, but he said no, then I let him know that he needs to apologize to his girlfriend so that he relieve his heart from the trouble, since those things he did is bothering him.
When he asked for forgiveness she replied him that, it broke her heart when he talks to her like he does not care, she was hurt, but was watching, what will be his reaction later on, therefore, now that he has seen how bad what he did was, she is happy that he has realize those things were wrong to do.
Wes & Grindan
