I had no idea about the ideal month for weddings for women here in the Philippines. I mean, I didn't know anyone who got married in June, nor did I get invited by anyone during that month. How sad my life is, seriously. Can someone please invite me? Lol. But, to be honest, I didn't really know anything about weddings. I thought about weddings during my teenage years, but all I cared about at that time was getting married to my dream man and living a happy life as a billionaire's wife (≧▽≦). Big dream, no(≧▽≦)? Lol. Well, imagination has no limit, so why not imagine even the impossible ƪ(˘⌣˘)ʃ?
Now, with the question: What would you say is the ideal wedding?
Hmmmm, for me, an ideal wedding is a simple yet detailed one. It should be full of joy, and anyone who attends will be captivated by it. Simple but sweet, and you can still feel the love or romantic vibe that any dream wedding has. Additionally, it should be within the budget while still following the desired wedding themes or the dream wedding of the couple. And most importantly, the wedding should be about the two couples, not about the flower arrangements that the sister wants or the wedding gown that the mother wants. It should be about "you and me" and not "their wants." Y'all know how some families can be that "bad meddler." It's super annoying and exhausting for the one that'll get married.
And another thing I mentioned "within the budget" for the wedding. We also have to think about the future of being together, not just that moment. And by leaving just enough in savings account for the future, that would give the couple a much bigger advantage, especially when they are already planning on having a baby. Although there's a chance that both of the couple's jobs can be enough to sustain their everyday needs, still, saving is super advantageous as it can also be an emergency fund for the family. As the saying goes, do not put it all in one basket, try to maximize it all, which will leave you enough for the future.
Am I saying the right thing here? What do you think? Ideal wedding ತ_ತ, hmmm, I think I'm on the right track, no? Lol. It's a wedding, so of course, thinking about the future while talking about a wedding is super important too. Right? It's part of the process no?
Anyways, I'm only saying this based on what my ideal wedding is. Like, it's literally what I want. A simple and meaningful wedding, and more importantly a sacred and it will take place in the presence of those people whom I love. That's what really matters. Although I don't have a plan to get married, but those thoughts first came to mind after reading this two words "ideal wedding" - and it's "our" wedding, what we want should be applied in here too └|∵|┐♪. But if we both agreed to leave all the preparation to the family, then that is when I would allow anyone to give their "wants" for my wedding (≧▽≦).
So, how about you? What would you say is the ideal wedding for you? Guysuuuuuuuuuuu! @xanreo, @lhes, @jane1289, @asiaymalay, @jenthoughts, join na! Here's the Contest Link. We have three topic this month, uwu.