Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #60 - "A BETTER HANGOUT"

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“Every day is a good day. There is something to learn, care and celebrate." - Amit Ray


Hello everyone, my beautiful hive naija people, it's another beautiful weekend and we are so happy to have you here once again to make the engagement fun as always. It's so sad that for some weeks now the engagement hasn't been as it used to be and we are really thinking of how to revive the hangout and I think it's not out of place to discuss about this for this weekend. I know it's not always easy to be consistent here but I do think that there may be something we are not getting right and it is always wise to put heads together.

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OBJECTIVE

As we all know, the Hive Naija Weekend Engagement is focused on promoting the togetherness of the Nigeria brethren together through engagement and it's also now concerned of the well being of each and everyone who is part of the engagement. This account was opened to make the engagement more personal and official you can find the INTRODUCTION POST to read more about the purpose and aim of this new account and also do well to follow the account so as to know when a post is made.

Last week, the topic was "2023 NIGERIA ELECTION"

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We had over 160+ comments last week which was great despite the fact that we had just few people who engaged, I want to appreciate you all for the consistency, quality engagement and your efforts, let's keep them coming ya all. Special thanks to everyone who makes this hang out possible.



A long time ago, I thought, I shared and I asked "Why don't we Chat on hive every Weekend?"
And you all said... YES

"Well, we won't be the first as there are some weekend engagement trends already on Hive! But this would be THE NIGERIAN VERSION!"

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I will drop a topic every Friday (Today's topic is below), share your thoughts on the matter, reply to someone else opinion, and interrogate the opinion if you like. Keep the discussion on. If you don't have anything to say about the topic. Just reply to someone else's comment.

Do all these in the comment section, as that is where it all goes down.

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There are no further rules, please banter as you like, speak any Nigerian language (Igbo, Yoruba, pidgin, Efik), anything, as long as someone else can understand.

Pls note : However, please don't take it to the extreme.

This week's engagement starts Immediately after you see this post and ends on Sunday at 11:59 pm.


Prizes for this week

Prizes are distributed to the winners after considering their interactions and also their contributions to the topic. And we have made some little changes and improvements in the prizes too. This week's prizes;

1st prize - A very good upvote in a selected post of yours in the week!

2nd Prize - 4 Hive

3rd Prize - 3 Hive

4th Prize - 2 HIVE

5th Prize - 1.5 Hive

Prizes courtesy of:

@Samostically @starstrings01(curator) & @ksam (1 Hive)

Pls note: If you win and fail to provide a quality post in 7 days, you forfeit your " quality upvote" (post must be less than 24hours old)



A BETTER HANGOUT

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For this weekend, we want to know your views about the Sam.hangout and ways you think we can do better and all.

So we want to know...

  • IF YOU WERE TO RUN AN HANGOUT, WHAT WILL YOU DO?

OR

  • WHAT CAN YOU DO TO MAKE THE HANGOUT WORK BETTER?

Remember, the aim of the hangout is to bring Nigerians together so make sure you have this in mind when responding to the questions. And feel free to add even more to it if you have any. And also, we all should do well to share our responses on Leothreads also and share the links here on the hangout so others can go and engage on it. Also don't forget to use the #samhangout and #leothreads (it will be a determinant for choosing our winners).



Okay Let's Gist!!!!

Be as simple and sincere with the discussion, hehehe.

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Don't you think we are forgetting somebody?... Well, I'm sure we are...

Oh yes before I forget, there are also prizes for those that did well to invite someone new to the party and also you that has done well to invite someone you are also not left behind because you didn't leave anyone behind. But wait... Not so fast, this time you have to be more intentional about your invite, yes that's right...you know what you benefit when you engage so why not let others know about it. In fact I will advise you to look beyond the prize and look more to doing something different even for your Naija brethren by showing them the way here.

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With all that said, let the discussion begin....

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I guess if we have to use Leothreads, we won't be able to give a full details since the characters are only limit to 240 words. What do you think? @sam.hangout

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Exactly my opinion on leo threads. But then where are our people?

Seriously, I have been trying to reach out to the threads but I can't find it. It seems my phone is making it more stressful getting to contribute. My system could have helped me easily but it's down.

What problem is that? Is it with your Keychain? I heard threads were down for some time but it's up now.

Threads is for your own benefit though, so you should find a way around it. It's not as hard as you see it.

The idea is to share your thoughts on leothreads. You know on threads you can thread under your own thread if it's long so I don't think that is really an issue.

When you make your suggestion here, all you have to do is copy it and also share it on threads using the #samhangout and #leothreads, then share the link here 🙂. I don't know if you get it.

Or rather, if your comment is that long then you can summarize it in just few words.

Thanks for this dear.

You're always welcome ma'am, it's my pleasure ❤️.

I totally support the idea it fun and cool there

@merit.ahama @abdul-qudus @cescajove @magicfingerz @maryjacy @timi01 @khingstan @kingsleyy @nelson-george you guys should show up and at least say hi, it's been a while and you, I haven't seen you here before, you know yourself 😜.

@hopestylist You stop tagging me abi no problem 😢

Sorry oo, my mind was empty and I was focusing more on what just entered, lolz. Please don't be sad, I'm don't want you to be 😏.

I don't trust you 🥺

No wahala, I don't want you to because even me I don't trust myself 😢

You are using styles to break my heart

Abeg oo, I don't want to use style oo, I'm not breaking your heart too 😂

She didn't tag me too

Foxy dey play, just dey play 😅

We have become nothing to her it's well

Abi na bro

Please shift. By the way good morning dear 😂

Ah!!! So if someone tells you that you would believe wholeheartedly because this is you saying it 😏.

You know i get jealous easily 😆😂 and not just that I'm serious we are nothing to you again the uniben guys have hijacked you from us

Hahaha, no UNIBEN boy can do that, it will take him a lot to do so 😂. I know you are always jealous so I'm trying not to make you even more jealous 😜.

Better don't make me more jealous o, those uniben boys are so lucky hehe I'm already thinking if i should redo my degree and come to uniben so i can get to see and monitor you 😂

Wow!
You dn show up again!

Welcome back even though it looks like a visitation on a flash🤣

Yes oo, I gat show up naw, hehe.

It's so good to have you here dear, how are you doing today?

You should know already...
Once you're fine, I'm fine 🙈

That means you are stressed because I am. Sorry dear 😌

@hopestylist I know myself oh!
Just tag only me... I will know you are talking to me directly. I have missed you guys so much, it's been a while I conversed like this. What's happening oh???

Lolz, not at all my love, you are not the main person in talking to, at least you've been in rge hangout before, hehe but yeah, we've missed you too 🥰.

Nothing much, just don't miss interacting in this week's hangout 🤗.

I am impressed with the comments and suggestions here, good job community!

We are happy to have you here too. We hope to see you more often. By the way, are you from Nigeria?

No, but I have engaged with many from Nigeria, a kind and considerate community!

Wow, that's really so sweet of you Ironshield, so which country are you from?

I'm from the state of Michigan.

Not sure if I've heard much about it but it's really nice to meet you here🤗

Thank you so much for the tokens, it's highly appreciated 🙏❤️.

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Many thanks 🙌🙌🙌

Thank you much 🚀

thank you so very much,i'm really exicted for the tokens sent.

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Wow, love the conversations here, very lively comment section!

It's going to be my first time joining the engagement. @jhymi , @cheeamaka. Y'all should come and check it out too.

Oh! Thank you girl.

The pleasure is all mine✨

Awwww 🥰 baby it's good to have u here welcome

Thanks love. I'm just observing for the mean time. Let's see how this weekend's engagement goes🌝

No prob baby girl u gat nothing to worry am sure you will love it here

I'm beginning to 😅

Here's a link to my response on leothreads

@geelocks @joycealarapon @jmis101 @wongi

It's not bad if you get involved here😁

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Nice suggestions from everyone. I would also like to give my little opinion too. This hangout is a great one because it connects us to other users while hearing their views concerning the related topics being given. It also boosts engagements here on Hive which is great.
So, I would like to add that perhaps a poll should be out with random topics where people would cast a vote to choose the next topic for the weekend.

OR

People should be tagged individually every week to suggest a topic idea. At least this would make everyone assigned and take responsibility when it's their turn. In this way, you are putting them in the affairs of the hangout.

This is my little contribution. This can be found on my thread here:

https://alpha.leofinance.io/threads/view/princessbusayo/re-leothreads-2afre7bnw

Yes a discord group where we all can drop a topic and at the end the best and the prefer

A really great idea. That feeling of yes my topic was chosen is more than money. You will now begin to think you have sense 😂

That is it. You gerrit 😎
Thank you.

To the one in charge you've always been doing a great job.
Ever since the hang out started
You all have been doing great.

Don't really know what went wrong because there used to be a time if I stay a minute to comment I would come to see tons of comment.

But then I think what's affecting is how it can be hard for people to get upvotes these days which led some to staying off hive theses days and this really affect our weekly hang out.

So here is the thing maybe we get to be familiar and connect back with ourselves through post I mean be connected to everyone that is always tagged on this post you know comment and reblog and if you can upvote fine not really necessary just connect back.

With that we keep the vibe and come back every Friday to our weekly hang out.
That should help revive.

Getting familiar with ourselves can be a great way to start off, and step up.

Yes it is, I hope they look into it 😉.

Yeah sometimes only a comment can give you encouragement and hope

You got my point

Wow, this is a really beautiful idea, reconnecting is sure one of the best ways to revive the hangout to how it should be.

Yeah i just feel we all need to connect back.

Yeah we do 😌

I've read through the comments and a lot of persons have made really beautiful suggestions on how to make our hangout a beautiful place to be.

Well for my little suggestion, I think it will be a good idea to delegate the duty of choosing each weekend's topic of discussion to different people, especially those that are consist and the person chosen will also be in charge of choosing that week's winner. This will make everyone feel welcomed just as @kilvnrex suggested.

@quduus1 I will really love to know what you think, I've missed my engagement partner 😭.

Hmmmmm, I miss you more than you know it my love, no talking, no engagement, no chatting, everything has changed but don't worry I am here now and I will be with you shortly on this...

I guess it's high time I make my way back home, as we all know there is no place like home...

See you in a while

Awwn, I know you did miss me, the fact that I miss you means you missed me more and I'm looking forward to seeing you soon dear.

It's time to revive our engagement spirit, it was at rest for too long, even if we don't do up to what we normally do before, at least we should do something than nothing, hehe.

Okay my love, you call the shot and I will be at your beck and call, I need to go down to the market with mum, when I get back I will share my opinion my dear..

No problem dear, take care of yourself. I will be going offline soon sef, I have someone's hair to make.

Heheh my baby 😍❤️

IF YOU WERE TO RUN AN HANGOUT, WHAT WILL YOU DO?

Pls just do hookup among us, I don't mean the hookup you mean ooo, I mean the genuine one. Then watch out for massive turn up🙈🙈🙈

I'm speaking the minds of many.🥱🥱🥱🥱

I come in peace

Looking at it from a different perspective it could work if the hangout will be having weekly tasks. Then someone can be in charge of connecting participants on discord before the hangout weekend approaches.

Having task is not out of place but that would take some time to plan. I love how you think, it's really creative 😌.

I appreciate the compliment, thank you.

You are welcome my brother 🥰

This one really entered👍.
Let me tag this aunty to see this @hopestylist

Thank you so much for the tag dear, I will check it out.

Just be confusing people Kingsley. Which one is the genuine one again. Hookup is hook up🌝🌝

😂😂😂😂 I guess he meant to say connect

I really hope so😂

🙄🙄

Thank you. You gerrit 😁

Lol🤣.
Not the hook-up that has its headquarter in Lagos, I mean the Oxford Learners Dictionary's definition 🥱

Let me go and search for my dictionary🌝

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Number one or two🌝

This lady!
You have time eeeeh!🤣🤣🤣

I want the two of us to be number two

I want the two of us to be number two

See new format na😂😂😂 lines

What makes you think it's just a 'mere lines' huhh?
You no dey believe person?


Omo! Make rivals no go wipe me oraimo cord. I know they're watching 😭

Hook up is a good idea, make we see as e dey go, hehe. Noted 👌

This guy u just dey play

Lol🤣.
I no speak your mind?🥳

Oh right
I need to send the ecency point

Lets go 🚀

Go where oo? 🤓

@hopestylist hi dear leader and baby 😙 how are you doing 😊?

My boss 🙌

Good morning darling brother 🤗 it is nice seeing you doing well

All thanks to your guidance 🙇🙌

Keep moving well brother and always remember I'm here anytime please be good

Please chat me up on WhatsApp or call me there are some things i need to explain to you so you won't make same mistakes next time.. by the way you have gotten a nice voice 😊 Weldon brother now yuh are making me happy

Awwn, Good morning Ayobami, I'm fine and you?

Good morning dear.. how have you been?

I've been fine and you?

I'm pretty good too ☺️ it's nice to talk to you after a long time 😉

Anywhere wey you wan carry me go 🤲

Lolz, na you dey carry us oo 😂

Until you came into the picture 😂
And as always I'll have to give way for my boss

Abeg oo, which kind wayo be that? Better dey tell us where you dey carry us dey go oo 😏

Into the hollies of hollies 😂😂

Welcome on board bro, it's nice to have you here.

Thank you

Here we come again.
Thanks for the mention Sam.
We move 🏃🏃

Omo, this weekend de somehow for yia. Hello my filfo... Who de yakata for Mama house?

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This girl and her pidgin😂. It's the 'filfo' for me.

This weather is just divine. The cold reach your side?

Wife to be, ya here..

Yes o, dear husband to be. I came hear today, courtesy of Kingsley 😅

Awnnn.. you are highly welcome home😁😁 but tell Kingsley ya engaged oo🤣🤣

Awnnn.. you are highly welcome home😁😁 but tell @kingsleyy ya engaged oo🤣🤣

😂😂😂. Kingsley, shebi you have heard😅

Omo!
Hope say you never do small thing for her head?

Omo, na heaven I de so.

Just de on a soft baa. Personal baliego💆

Omo, you na rich yanga... Come pepper way na

Chap, where you dey these grammars na?

No de trail my Belle with tortorri... Wetin b grammar?

Hehe.. you na big name normally na🤣🤣. Happy Sunday

My fellow Nigerians una good morning I just dey wake up

Happy weekend fam🥰

Yea.. let me go and read.
@nkemakonam89 @mercysugar @adoore-eu @olujay would you mind coming over here and bring your opinions? 😎😉
It's that time to banter both in English and pidgin 😅

Hehe, yeah it is that time. As usual @olujay winno show up 😏.

You refused to tag me no problem be doing your own now

Hehehe. I'm sorry na 😂😂
Okay, next time, I will try to remember 😎
Good morning and how are you doing?

I'm very fine how are you doing too?

I'm doing good.

Hello sweetie ❤️
Thanks for tagging me

It's been a busy day for nkem
Glad I am here now
It's not easy here

I can imagine, sorry ehn.

How is the family doing sef? My boys 😎

Family is good my darling
Thanks for checking on us

I'm happy to know that they are doing great, my regards to them 🥰.

You're always welcome my amiable ambassador, have a fantastic day ahead.

Awww
You too my dear ❤️

I will 🤗

Opps, sorry about that. Hope you do a little before retiring off to bed.

Yes oo, very important, hehe. It's not easy 🙂

My dear ..I tried a bit last night
Still feeling sleepy... maybe I should go back to bed sef

Please, go back oo. Don't stress yourself ma ✌️🤗

Smiles
I just got up again
I feel better now❤️👍

Good day friends.

I am grateful to be back here after the general elections. I am more grateful that there was not much chaos as expected during the elections.

Welcome to this weekend hangout.

My POV On How A Hangout Could Be Improved

A hangout is simply regarded to where people agree to meet and discuss on topical issues as it affects them or the time they live in.

I think that when an hangout is to be organized, the first thing to be done is to state clearly what your expectation from the hangout would be. When this is done, thoroughly, then inr may proceed without fear.
Allowing for people to say their minds on the issue at hand is a great way to improve the hangout. From human psychology, people feel free and welcomed when their perspective in a discourse is respected. So, when people say a particular statement, whether it is true or not, your response must not negate them directly.

On the other hand, the reward system (if any) you be on merit. Giving out reward to discussants in a hangout is yo encourage participation. Even though the reward is at thee discretion of the organizer, it must have a controlling factor for the choice of who gets what. I have been in one hang out here on hive where the organizer said openly that he gives the reward base on his personal wish to anyone he wishes. But my take on that is that the organizer rather not add a reward system if it will not be base on merit.
In addition, topical issues that affects the particular time should be brought in from week to week. The topic could be from national issues, politics, education, finance, social issues like marriage, crime and so on. Since the hangout has a n age bracket as it target, topics that affects such age bracket should be on the discussion list.
In addition, when results of the week's discussions are released, everyone who has taken part should be mentioned. It is away of getting feedback.

The reward system may not be easy to follow through because of finance, as such, partnership is welcomed. The hangout could partner with brands to get rewards dishes out to discussants on different levels and on a weekly basis as sponsored by the partners.

I think, with these, the hangout hope to be successful.

These are valid points and you have definitely said well ✌️
Working on people's perspectives, reward system, having topics relating to that moment are something amazing.

Yeah that will be nice and that's why it's always mentioned that people should bring up topics for discussion but sadly nobody has done that except for @quduus1 but that was a long time ago.

It will be nice if everyone partake in the aspect of bringing topics and I think I have an idea.

I have understood something about Nigerians, and that is the fact that Nigerians understand things quite differently.

Telling them to bring topics is one thing, but them you will need to find away to bring the topics outta them😂

Lolz, we will be choosing two people then and also having a backup plan 😂

Definitely if not, people can be very funny.

Yeah I can imagine, lolz

Abeg share the idea with us oo 😅

Yeah, I already did, I made my response, you should check it out ☺️.

I have understood something about Nigerians, and that is the fact that Nigerians understand things quite differently.

Telling them to bring topics is one thing, but them you will need to find away to bring the topics outta them😂

Yeah partnership is a better idea

Very well.
That will increase the rewards.

These are really brilliant points you've mentioned and it will be great if it's looked into. I'm glad that I'm part of the people who put things in place for the hangout so this will surely be looked into.

Thank you so much for sharing your POV with us.

Thank you so very much for this initiative . I am glad to be associated with folks here.

Me too, I'm really so happy to be around you all, it's a great privilege 🤗

😊

Ahaha
Don'ttt ask me what that picture is!!!!
A drama we had in church describing the Nigeria we live in....

Thank you for knowing I will ask 😂

Wow..these are nice points
I will love to stress on this part: names of all participants should be mentioned while announcing the result. Some people may be discouraged after participating for weeks without hearing anything about results. Without the notification, many won't get to see it and they will be wondering where the outcome of their time went

@sam.hangout you may need to read this please

Yeah, that is a good idea, it is noted.

Thank you my dear

Thank you more, it's for all of us ❤️

Correctly analyzed. That's what I meant when I mentioned it. You did well to juxtapose that point.

It's a valid point indeed.

I'm glad I was able to convince you.

I'm gladder, lolz 😅

😂
I'm gladdest....

Thank you bro👌

That's right. Many times I don't get to be notified to know who won except when I win. This should be put into consideration for the sake of other people who may feel "of what use is my time here then?"

Exactly
Glad we pointed it out

Hello everyone,

This week's question is a beautiful one, it's actually an opportunity for everyone to bring in their idea of what they think can make a better hangout.

Well in my own humble opinion

How to run a hangout, first I will have a goal and what exactly I want to achieve in the hangout. Coming to hive which the main reason is to build the community and also a way to encourage people to grow. I think a discord group chat should be created so we can be sending in our topic and at the end of the week, the best and preferred topic will be picked and used for the week's hangout.

Secondly people should be rewarded based on the effort they have put in. If we want to grow a system then people should be given a task to accomplish and a way to also contribute our ideas, money and time for the growth of the system. This is the way to also make people grow and be serious in what they are doing, when the work let them be rewarded according to the effort.

The thing that will get especially young people to be consistent about a thing is fun, let the topic be fun and interesting to play around with and also a means to learn and grow and also earn, yeah we can introduce games for the fun and the winners get to earn something tangible. This is my humble opinion thanks.

Let me invite a friend @itohowo

Thank you @etorobong
I love here

You're welcome just drop ur own

You've got some really cool ideas, I believe that things just become easy naturally when you have people sharing ideas. We will look into all of the ideas shared here this weekend.

Thank you so much for participating, we are grateful 🥰.

You're welcome dear

This initiative by @sam.hangout is amazing, I love it. Good to see we can speak kparapo always when expressing ourselves.

If my suggestion has been made, then I am supporting the motion. But if it has not been made, then here is it:
MY SUGGESTION
Since it is a hangout, we can make it live even on the Blockchain. What I mean is, if we can get the actual time the hangout post would be uploaded. The writer makes it short, but every commenter is on ground to express their view instantly. Not within a space of two days but that moment.
We can also have added channel on discord where we all type simultaneously and the writer's voice is heard. If he wants, some other people who believe strongly that they need their voices heard than just typing the words out can also use the voice channel to talk.
@deraaa come and join in here. Is @abdulqudus, come and join the hangout. @zizymena are you here yet?

It's a great privilege to have you here this weekend ma'am. I'm happy you came to share some ideas with us and I think I can understand your thoughts and we will also look into how to work with them.

Thank you so much for joining us once again ❤️.