Today, as I go through my experience in life, I realize that adulthood is here and from the little I have learnt from life, I discover no one is capable of deciding or determining what tomorrow holds but some people still seem to have it all figured out.
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Of course life is in stages, there are people who look up to you and there are people you look up to but that aside there are people who just seem to have things figured out. They get what they want anytime they want it. I can also get a number of things but I am yet to get to the level where I can get everything I want.
As I was ruminating on those above me, I remember a friend who told me he was getting a new car and will soon be relocating too. It seem like a movie because he just got his house too. Things just working! I also have some goodies to show but I really wish to do stuff like that 'easily.'
To shock you, the above was what someone shared with me about how she feels. She was obviously getting frustrated but also trying to keep it all together.
As she concluded her words, I smiled and asked her "are you in debt?" She looked at me surprised and a bit irritated. "You know I'll never live above my means," she answered.
"Do you know if the guy is living above his means and probably doing those things to show off?" She seem to get my point as she nodded.
All I tell people is to do their best and never compete with others. Get better ways of doing things, try out new things, learn from people etc. But don't get frustrated over someone else's life or lifestyle.
JUST KEEP DOING YOUR BEST!
