Walking Away from Who They’ve Become: When a Bond No Longer Feels Right

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Every type of Bond that we make with other people is something that is going to be a particular part of our life, which will have a lot of value within itself,f anterior are a lot of expectations from our side, as there can be a lot of meaningful aspects that will be involved in it which makes it so much important for us and our life is based on the bond is that we are making with the people, and that is what makes us the people we are as well as on opportunities that are going to be very necessary to do whatever we want to do in our life.

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At the same time, there are a lot of such bonds that often work the way we internet them to work lightly, and also, Expectations can sometimes not be met, which often leaves us with a very strange and incomplete feeling and other things when we often feel that we are not getting be want from that particular bond and that can be a lot of changes with the other person as well who is involved in that specific bond which also makes us feel that it might be time that we need to call it quits.

Change is inevitable in our lives, and there can be a lot of different changes in other people as well, which can be a drastic change in their behavior as well. we might find ourselves in a particular place when we even feel like we are with a stranger and that can happen with a person with whom we had a very strong bond even for so many years. In this situation,, it becomes extremely difficult to even process whatever has happened, and it can be a very big emotional roller coaster as it is very complex, and things like letting go and staying becomes one of the main aspects of thought in our mind.

One of the things that we need to realize is that his dad's change is something that is a part of life. People do take different parts and never stain the same way, and that can be because of a lot of reasons, which can include the different circumstances theyfaceg in their life as well as also being subject to a lot of issues as well in the person's life and there can be some personal growth as well an,d also there can be a shift in priorities for them because they can look forward towards new values as well as think that might be very much helpful for them and that can create a bit of a gap with the past self of them.

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Regardless of whatever the reason for the change is, we need to be thinking about ourselves as well because the relationship that we build over the past, whatever duration it existed, needs to have a few qualities that must never be eroded, ne of which is going to be mutual respect because without it with the entire thing mind become a bittooxide and making sure that there is noharmful behaviorr inn world is also one of the things that we need to be looking forward to and one of the most important fact is that we need to make sure is that we never feel emotional being around them.

There is a lot of science that we can take and realize that things are not getting very helpful and it is going towatowering unhealthy direction, and the things that we can do at that particular point in time give it a try and makingg sure that we get to the point where it all used to be very good or we need to realize that one of the hardest things that we have to be doing is definitely to just let go of someone.

One of the most difficult things while doing this is the pullback that occurs because of the memories that we have of that particular person making sure that those are the things that are not going to be something that might influence our decision is by reminding ourselves whatever is happening right now because we might feel nostalgic but at the same time we need to think about the reason why we are thinking about letting go and those are the things which can help us take a better decision and also getting away from the Guilt that we have because we are not responsible for whatever changes have occurred in the person and one of the best things that we can do is just walk away.

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All in all, it can break our hearts to see someone change into someone that we can't even relate to, but at the same time, whenever we feel something is going on, we always need to think about ourselves think forcefully about something about not giving a speech and also becoming a reason for our emotional instability might sometimes be something that can do more harm than good, and that is when we need to realize all of these things and leaving wind what no longer serves us.


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