It is so bad for someone to pay good with evil.
What am I trying to say, am talking about ingratitude. First of all what is ingratitude?Ingratitude is the lack of appreciation or thankfulness for the help, kindness, or benefits received from others. Or you can say taking what someone did for you for granted,so friends from my points what can you say for me I can say that is not good for someone to turn back on anyone knowing fully well that that person has done a great thing for you even if is a little that that person did. Gratitude is not only when you are saying thankyou.when you fail to appreciate what little someone has done for you, if you have being in that shoe you will notice that problem is coming even when not necessary. Why am I saying this, there was a time a friend of mine was having a little issue with her parents, she had to tell me so I went to their house and prove to her parents that she is right so on hearing this her parent forgives her she was happy and saying thank you for what I have done for her .
One week later I had a problem where we are learning as a computer student, so I told her to defend me but she told me that I don't know what am saying that she not doing anything becide didn't I told you thank you for what you did for me, I said to don,t worry my good will save me. After everything the problem was settled.
From that day she keeps having one problem to another one but I didn't do anything. That's when she realize that was ungrateful to me.
causes of ingratitude
- Fear of dependency: when they think people will say they depends on that help
- Jealousy: when they are jealous on how you manage to help them
- Comparison: when they compare what others is doing for them with yours
- Unawareness of Effort: Sometimes, people may not realize the time, effort, or sacrifice behind a kind gesture. Without understanding the giver's effort, they might take it for granted and not feel the need to show gratitude.
to stop ingratitude
- Always think that when you to do that another may come and you won't receive help.
- Stop comparing because those people you compare might not helSummary for ingratitude
Ingratitude is the lack of appreciation or help generosity received. It can manifest as taking people or their efforts for granted, neglecting to say "thank you, not only saying thank you but doing the same for that person or
another person" looking for another assistance without recognizing their efforts. In relationships, ingratitude can harm trust, damage bonds, as the unacknowledged person may feel undervalued. Cultivating gratitude is essential, as it fosters goodwill, strengthens relationships, and creates a positive cycle of support and appreciation. Recognizing and expressing gratitude can prevent the negative
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