Marriage is a union. We must be perfectly joined together to make a fruitful marriage. Marriage is not just a game. Marriage is not some kind of illusion. Marriage is a union which God initiated having come to realize that it was not good for man to be alone.
The will of God for us is that we should find the partner that perfectly fits us. As a man, God expects that you will have a wife who is prudent and perfectly suitable for you. As a woman, God wants you to have a prudent husband.
A prudent partner is worth more than precious stones. Through a prudent partner, one will be able to pursue and fulfill the purpose of God for his or her life. When we have our right partner, we will be able to do the will of God. Working together among people who are prudent will be very easy. So, the purpose of God for us maritally is to have partners who are prudent.