Personally for me I love to live a life that makes others curious about me. I try my possible best not to make them be able to read me at their own pleasure. Locally, we use the word "I won't let them see me finish"....That's true.
I have come to notice that when people have finally come to notice who you are, what you do, what your dreams are, where you're headed, most frequent words of yours, frequent things you do....in general all about you, you surely would no more become a topic of interest. This is because there is nothing interesting about you anymore. Yes!!!ANYMORE.
If you still don't understand what I am saying, then take a look at a work setting. An employer employs a new male staff in his restaurant and he is introduced to his colleagues. Would you notice or not that he automatically becomes the subject of curiosity? Some female colleagues would like to dare him and some would like to flirt with him. Male colleagues would like to keep him close while studying him. All these attentions are natural because they need personal information about him from him, and when the new face loses himself totally no one would be curious about him anymore because he has given it all out but if he had talked little and kept them guessing, it would have been fun for him. That's why they would say after sometime that he has finally blended.
I tell you as a person, you must always be a subject of interest no matter where you find yourself. Even if you must belong, be someone of interest by making them curious about you. Well I prepared 10 ways your name can remain on people's lips mostly at all times.
♧♧♧. Talk less and listen more:
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Learn how to say few words when you're around people and if you must talk, let it be meaningful and fair without criticism. Still I prefer a listening ear than talking mouth. When you listen more, ideas come. It's is very much possible that when everyone's done talking, your opinion might be needed and valued than the rest since you remained silent. That's a credit...
♧♧♧. Mind your business without meddling into other people's lives:
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Be you a guy or lady, never cultivate the habit of meddling into other people's affairs or private lives. It makes you look cheap, insecure and boring. Believe me that people are only interested in those that meddle not into other people's business. This is because they feel you can secure their secrets and personal lives they give to you. A gossip or talkative cannot have their names on people's lips and heart.
♧♧♧. Understand your purpose and pursue it:
Understanding your career path in life and pursuing it is a sign of maturity and responsibility that makes people crazy about you. Bachelors chasing their dreams gives them no or little room for flirting and that makes women come for them. Diligently chasing your career path gives no room for much social activities hence people not being able to read you completely which makes them always curious about you.
♧♧♧. Smiling with the corner of your mouth(the lopsided smile):
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Jeez, I do this very well. Some mistake it to be pride. Well they are almost right because the plan is to make me feel like "...hey its OK, I know how to fix it and don't worry I'm confident I know it all...". Well guys that smile from the corner of your lips is a reassuring smile and girls love it. They smell that confidence and forever talk about it.
♧♧♧. Walk tall and proud:
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I do not mean arrogance. I hate arrogance so much that if I find it in another person, I might throw up. Walking tall and proud for me is self confidence. When people see you walking tall and proud, they will want to know what you have, who your father is and what your networth is. Pleeeeease, don't tell them instead give them the reassuring smile(no. 4). Jeez, they won't stop talking about you even in your absence.
♧♧♧. Keep a private life:
Not everything you do privately should be casted out and not everyone you talk to should be exposed especially in the name of friendship. Keeping a low profile secures your path and keeps them guessing things about you. Can't you see how special you are?
♧♧♧. Be confident, most especially in stormy situations:
Every lady loves a guy who is exceptionally confident in rough situations. This makes them relax and trusting. Even at work here, a lot of people talk about my confidence like I cannot get sacked or something. My greatest solution of facing rough situations at work is being calm and confident enough in resolve and this always gets my name on their lips.
♧♧♧. Live a righteous life:
This is the secret to it all. Abstain from sin and things that may cause bad reputation to your name and image like pilfering, fornicating privately with some colleagues, gossiping and envying...these things work with your conscience. When you have a clean and clear conscience, you will walk proudly and always be the man of the day.
♧♧♧. Be respectful, gentle and patient:
This is very important in the life of every man and woman. Learn how to respect others and you will be respected. Be gentle to others and you will be treated the same way. Be patient with people's attitude, unnecessary quarrels will not arise. With these, you won't see yourself in the normal dirty things people find themselves all the time like quarrelling, fighting, keeping malice etc...
♧♧♧. Be fair and disciplined:
This is another great important factor if you want to be someone great in life and remain on people's lips and heart. Do not be unfair to anyone even if its a troublemaker at work. If the trouble maker is right and your best friend is wrong, do not take sides in favour of friendship. Take sides in favour of justice. Maintain discipline on your personal life, work, body and everything around you and you will not just become the topic in people's lips but you will proceed far in life.
This is my best ten but I know there are still more ways to make your name unforgettable in the hearts of people. You might tell me yours in the comment section so I can also learn and be better. Thanks for stopping by to read my article. Have a splendid weekend coming ahead.