Getting married does bring structure to life, I suck at been alone really dont know how I would be without my wife from my decisions, been responsible, knowing that there is someone at home who cares for you refuel my energy, I think its most important when having kids so it serves as example, but there is this foolish battle for power in society between men and women that is destroying marriage, not that Im an expert just how I see things, the amount of single women and mothers is increasing rapidly same for single men without thinking that we cant survive without each other, plus the new "genders" don't help at all to procreation, the scale of the problem is so large all we can do is give the best education to our kids and do our part from home, sometimes this could be consider a toxic topic to talk about like politics and religion, it really sux