Should you avoid overthinkers??

in #hive-1553732 years ago

It is often confirmed that an overthinker are commonly known to find it difficult to quickly fall in love with anyone... But when they give you a place in the world of overthinking
They will easily fall in love with you even in the smallest things.

They tend to easily be able to find the love in your smile, in your gaze, in your expression.
They can spend a whole day just imagining what your face looks like when you talk! You will be able to spend night after night thinking about every word you say. Whether you stay by their side or not, they will spend the whole day thinking about you.

Avoid getting involved with such people because these people will want to hold you all the time when they really fall in love.

They will want to keep you tied to their love and care which will show that you may have a suffocating feeling.
The fear of losing the person you love as a result of their overthinking chases you back all the time. For whom they always want to keep their man at bay or think a little man may not love him anymore!

For example, if one day you can't give a call or a message due to busyness, they will take a moment to think about it all the time. You may not like or love him anymore so you didn't give a call / message. It can be seen that when you see a person talking to another person of the opposite sex, you will burst into tears.

If you ever lose your attention or care, they will assume that you are no longer loved.
If you ever get a little upset, they will worry about it too. Will repeatedly ask if you are okay, if everything is okay. Sometimes you will keep whining in front of your ears just to hear love coming back from your mouth.

If they think that you are just saying this out of habit, they will cry and think that it is not your habitual love. All in all, they are floating in the sea of ​​thoughts about you all the time. Sometimes they fall into mischief without a reason, wondering if you really love him!

Even if you ever leave them, they will spend days and nights, months and months wondering where his mistake was! Did he actually make such a very huge mistake which you left! And he will blame himself for everything
Such people suffer from a lack of self-confidence.

No matter what happens in life or in vain they easily consider themselves worthy of replacement. Can't trust others easily. And it is because of this lack of self-confidence and distrust of others that they are constantly worried.

So refrain from associating with these types of people unless you have the confidence and ability to love and tolerate them for the rest of your life.

What is the need to go into the life of such a person for a temporary period of time and increase his anxiety and decrease his self-confidence?


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