Ladies of Hive Community Contest #222

Wonderful question from ma'am @saffisara

1️⃣ Who, or what, inspires you?
~ 𝐀𝐍𝐃 / 𝐎𝐑 ~
2️⃣ Who was your role model growing up?

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My kid's are my inspiration, my strength and weakness. Our everyday lives is not easy. Having four kids that needs to go to school is a struggle, but I taught them to smile no matter how hard it is.

My husbands works in Manila. After he starts to work in that place, things suddenly change. I just prove that money can change a people lives. It's either going on the right path or the wrong track. Ours made no improvement. His relatives also noticed that. He became more addictive in gambling, the more I stopped the more he'll just get mad. I just thought that before he gamble he already bought the needs in the house. But only the exact amount no more excess, so when my kids starve I make my ways to feed them. My online worked help me fixed the broken pieces of my self. I was totally down when somebody thought me to crypto. I'd never believe till the money is already in my hands.

But he never change, as he see me making money on my own the more he becomes selfish. But he never abandon us, I didn't teach my kids to blame their father, I told them his just lost, his just tired. We argue, we fight, we reconcile for the kids. I'm much tougher now because I want to change him and bring back his old self.

My kids are my everything, I have no siblings. My father died when I was at my very young age. I found the happiness in my kids. Seeing them fight like cats and dogs, but definitely love each other unconditionally.

She's @katsuki29 First year college taking up Information Technology. A scholar in her father's company. In her first semester she had a total average of 1.20 she's also has a small business of fuzzy wires and I'm helping her to grow her business. I also introduce her to hive, but she's busy in the school and she's helping in the house and to her younger siblings.

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My son Sasuke the hardworking cycling rider of sir @friendlymoose. His bike parts are bought from his hard work. He catches shrimp using his own hands, then sold them into his uncle.

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My little wonderer my youngest. I had my cesarean section and tubal ligation on her. But it's all worth it. There are no chances that another kid will suffer. She's brave, innocent she brought a lot of joy in our family.

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My complicated son Jj, since he was a baby my sister-in-law borrowed him. But she went on a point that she doesn't want to return my son. I heard a lot of hard words that are not meant for me but I just sip my mouth. Because even my husband didn't defend me. We just thought that his life is a lot better in my in-laws. Besides we can see him whenever we want. Ria and Jj also go in the same school.

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This is my entry to @ladiesofhive community contest 222

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@usagigallardo015

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Wow! Your children are growing and bless you for having them. All your struggles will pay off...

Yes po ate @jurich60 the right time will come

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Reading your post life is really tough sissy we can't control everything especially feelings. It's always stand out whatever reminder we have but I always admired you, because you are very strong facing them all. Still you are grateful because your children are good and obedient to you. They follow the right path. Your prayers and wishes will be granted sissy just believe it. Because you are a good person whatever you sow I believe you will reapped it too. Maybe not this time but it will come. Just hang on there sissy. Good luck sissy and God bless you always.

Thank you my dear @hellgirl02 I also believe that one day all our hardwork will be paid off

I admire you as their mother. You raise them well. May the Lord our God continue to give you wisdom, strength and unconditional love to your kids. Thank you for sharing ate @usagigallardo015

You're very much welcome my dear @missellimac I'm happy that I was able to inspire you with our story

Wow! They really are gems sis. Your kids are the very essence why you were put on this beautiful planet earth that is to rear your children to be good, amazing people in the time to come.
Life is not easy but we should remember with all the storms that beset us it's what makes us strong. For calm seas would never make a great sailor.

Thank you so much ate @aideleijoie I'm happy that you dropped by into my post again. You bring Wonderful words of wisdom God blessed us always

I think you set a fine example to your kids @usagigallardo015 in what you do for them, your relationship with your husband is far from ideal. His response to your earning some income speaks volumes of his mindset but it is a step that was necessary and empowering to you. I have two sons and they mean everything to me.
Thank you for sharing ❤️

Thank you so much for ma'am @kerrislravenhill for dropping by. I just thought that he also needs my help. I saw him lost his ways, but I never gave up on him even I really wanted too. Instead I made him realize that family is much more than important. There's always hope, like my son Sasuke said wait and trust the process mom!

You are a strong woman, your husband will realize it one day and make the wrong right. You are very optimistic about him. I love your spirit.

Thank you so much for the wonderful words my friend @debby-cwm

Our children motivate and inspire us to give them the very best we are able.

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