I'm selfish and entitled / Week 132

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What I will write here is an acknowledgement that I am bossy and many, many times selfish, but many times I consider that I am right to command and demand so much from those around me, mainly my family, because I do a lot and the least I think is that I should have consideration on their part, which is often a subtle way of telling them, "here you do what I say".

A few days ago I had a discussion with my husband precisely because of issues related to this, I was already upset because during the work of remodeling the living room, I did not feel great support from him, in fact I painted alone, because in my opinion he does not know how to paint, and to my criticism he just looked, but painting is not the only thing to do in a house and it bothers me a lot, But painting is not the only thing to do in a house and it bothers me a lot, but a lot to have to literally chase a member of my family to remember simple things like washing your plate, or dry the toilet if you wet it, take out the garbage, or support me cleaning the kitchen, and the cleaning product, degreaser, hurts me and secondly both my husband and my son being men have more strength than me, to clean the kitchen when it is dirty and full of grease, while they do that, I can go cleaning another area or attending to something else.

So lately at home I have been labeled as quarrelsome and bossy, and as simple as that they have to put up with it because I am the one who contributes more and does more in many ways, so as simple as "I'm in charge here", even if the apartment is my mother's, hahaha.

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Now, as for selfishness, well, many, many times when I buy something to taste I eat it on the street and I don't take anything to any of those who live under the same roof as me, mother, son or husband, hahaha, the reason or reasons simply sometimes I don't feel like taking anything, or I don't have to buy something for everyone so I treat myself alone, away from home and I don't leave evidence of what I have eaten and obviously I don't tell them anything.

But as everything has a, but, I can not deny that in many aspects and daily my family supports me and sometimes I minimized their actions and I sit without support, because I want things to be done when, how, where the way I say, that is, and a few days ago for being selfish eating a cake alone in the parking lot to not share with them, Luigi arrived, a community cat that I feed and I pee, this is what I call karma.

Finally, I can say that this is my participation in the Week 132 at first I felt inclined to the first proposal, but after reading the ones that followed I fully identified with the last one The selfish and entitled weekend. Tell us how selfish and entitled you are and why, a hug, thank you for making it this far and please remember to share with me your comments.

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I think I can understand you on the part some where you become entitled with some family matters. And as for selfish, I sm really selfish too. I think we all have that or maybe it is just us 🙉

It makes me feel relieved that you identify with me on these issues and even describe it with a certain piquancy that I love, greetings.

It feels bad when you are the only one doing all the chores at home without a helping hand and if you are trying to tell them what to do, they see it as being bossy over them. Lol

Sometimes, it's good to treat yourself and not take home for families and friends. It isn't necessary sometimes when it's all about you. So, it's good to be selfish once in a while when you know you deserved it 😅

So lately at home I have been labeled as quarrelsome and bossy

In groupings, I always treat my members like it. Well, I don't have a choice, though. I'm just doing it to let us finish an output behind the title. Although I have that kind of attitude, I am still assured by them that they would be able to give their insights. The teamwork is still visible in our group. I want to write something about it too. However, I already wrote it in my blog two weeks ago. Thank you for this blog. I can relate, haha.

It is good to know that you identify with me, sometimes you have to demand from those around us to give more, there are the conformists, those who want others to do it for them and the parasites that hit you to see what they suck pretending to be someone who contributes. I saw it in high school and then when I saw my two college careers.

It feels bad when you are the only one doing all the chores at home without a helping hand and if you are trying to tell them what to do, they see it as being bossy over them. Lol

Sometimes, it's good to treat yourself and not take home for families and friends. It isn't necessary sometimes when it's all about you. So, it's good to be selfish once in a while when you know you deserved it 😅

Thank you @princessbusayo for understanding perfectly what I wrote in my lines sometimes I wonder if the problem is me, but I analyze it over and over again and I see that I am not, maybe change a little the way I say it, but I have not, nor should I do it all alone and even less without support at least to make it clear. Thank you for understanding even my egoism