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Imagine a world that is filled with kind people - the world will be a habitable place for everyone that is devoid of any form of vices that has dominated the world today. Kindness is one quality that is hard to practice these days but if we have a kind heart we will all be in a more sane world. We all have the potential of being kind but due to the toxicity that have dominated the world less people show this important trait.
There are times when people treat you unfairly and it hurts so bad that you want to treat them the same way, unkindly but it is not always the best. It won't make the situation get any better rather it will make it worse. But our human instincts would always want us to retaliate and get revenge. It is the approach we adopt anytime we feel we are being trampled upon in an unfair way. But does it worth it to be unkind?
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In most cases, people take advantage of our kindness to treat us badly but we should not let this get to us and change the kind person that you are. There are some experiences that you'd look back to that will make you vow not to be kind anymore due to the pain and hurt it have cost you. However, on the second thought when you realize that when you are kind you're not only doing others good but yourself as well.
Looking back I can recount people that I have been so good to but they paid all my kindness back with inhumane and unkind gestures. Human beings do not remember when they seek for your assistance, the extent to which they pleaded until they got what they want. The ungrateful heart of so many people have made good people think twice about rendering assistance.
Kindness can also be reflected through the way we speak to people around us. You don't necessarily have to render financial assistance to someone before you are kind or to show support to them in times of trouble. The words you speak should also be a way of being kind to people. Think about your choice of words before spilling and check if it's going to cause pain and agony to the other person. Words are very powerful, hence the need to use it right.
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In order to be able to practice kindness efficiently you must be emphatic because this will help you to put yourself in other people's shoes before you react. When you can relate to the other person's situation you'd be able to act kindly rather than rudely or being hostile. This also goes hand-in-hand with the quality of being humble because when a person is full of pride he or she would not be able to treat others kindly. Pride will disconnect you from others and create some sort of unnecessary gap that will make you see others as unimportant. Practicing humility does not make you an inferior version of who you are.
The previous experiences you've had may be an hindrance to show kindness to others but bear in mind that kindness pays. In fact, your kindness may be a ray of hope to people around you without you knowing. The world needs every single person's kind heart to make our coexistence more interesting. Be kind to one and to all.
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The post is originally written by me 💕@debbie-ese💕
